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[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Literally none of this is about neurodivergece.

Its about at least one partner being terrible at communicating their actual wants and needs and boundaries... then growing resentful... then issuing a total ultimatum.

A scenario like this can only happen if at least one person is terrible at telling their partner want they want and need and expect out of the relationship, out of the other person.

It can be that both are terrible at communicating it has to be at least one, the ultimatum issuer.