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So I am a big fan of the Fediverse, I love the idea of decentralisation and I believe this is how the future of social media should be. But here starts the problem.

All my friends are using Instagram or TikTok or else. I didnt think of that while I also used Instagram, but I think they are highly addicted. Its not possible for them to not use Instagram for at least 1h when we meet up. When I still used Instagram, I was part of the problem. But now that I left it a couple of months ago, I just realised the problem I used to live in.

Addiction is all about realising you are addicted, but I find it very hard to address the problem. I dont want to harm our friendship over social media and I am afraid that when I tell them about their addiction, they will not agree and find it impolite.

So I believe that social media can only survive if the people use it. Its all about user generated content and while the Fediverse is doing better than ever, it still needs more users ASAP.

How can we achieve getting those people on the Fediverse and, more importantly, hold them here, while they slowly get less addicted to social media and see the potential of the Fediverse.

Thank you for reading and for thinking about possible answers. I wrote the whole text by myself, this is not AI generated.

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[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Just say it’s a less toxic reddit clone then talk about how Reddit sucks. I’m 0% tech inclined and I’m here cause the Voyager App made it easy. All I had to know was Reddit sucks (and got perma banned oops 🟢) and installed the voyager app and the rest is history.

[–] freudian_slop@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is half true. There are a few toxic instances and communities.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

yeah, and it's easy enough to block them with the right front end and have most of your expereince here be less full of insane brainrot.

There are some really cool folks and communities that actually have really cool and positive posts. But it is hard to find with all the slop and ragebait that many folks, and new users, seem to propagate.

[–] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

The user base might be more toxic but the ownerships structure is def less toxic

[–] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Also good to mention how there's no ads and no corporate algorithms curating what you see to push their brainwashing.

[–] Polisheocket@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 days ago

Same exact scenario for me. Voyager app makes it easy, only downside is content moves slower here then Reddit and not as many channels.