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[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Your knees and elbows. Train some kickboxing on how to strike with them.

Most items carried can be taken and used against you.

A portable alarm with a high intensity strobe can give you time to run toward safety. Or a smart-watch with a duress/emergency feature, to sound alarm and call assistance. There may not always be the chance to pull out an item though.

Your body size matters, get some expert advice on what will actually work for you, at your current size and fitness.

Confidence, if you prepare and walk tall, your chances of being targeted diminish.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Sturdy flashlight.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Used to carry a tactical pen disguised as a ballpoint pen.

Like people said, the best answers are the boring ones.

Best defense is being deescalating and avoiding dangerous situations, second is fast legs, third best is going to the gym, fourth best is probably pepper spray, and I would say the fifth best is a knife if legal. But most fights are over in under a second and there are no winners but only survivors with less severe injuries, and then it's almost always weapon > muscles > luck > technique > stamina.

Oh yeah and don't forget fighting is never cool. Everyone looks dumb, everything hurts and you will almost always regret it if you are sane.

[–] CaptainMan251@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I've also heard one of the best home defenses is a good dog. Just the act of it barking, I hear, scares people away because the house is now alerted.

[–] deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

Well that plus nobody wants to fuck with a big ass dog. Little one, maybe, the barking and even a little dog nippin at you isn’t pleasant but I can promise you nobody is breaking into a place with a shepherd staring right at em.

[–] Lobster@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 days ago

Steel water bottle with one end narrowed to be a convenient handle –

A fat water bottle can't be gripped. Bad handle = bad weapon –

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[–] Rivermoonwolf@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Roll of nickels.

[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Here even knives, sprays and batons are illegal, unless definable as tools

Best defence is to run fast with good stamina.

If that's not an option, dog poop bag and round stone size of a golf ball. You can claim it was inspired weapon.

...or a two sided monkey fist with ballbearings that you can claim was a stress toy.

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[–] weps@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

shovel to dig a trench

[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

A ring on your keys, big enough to use them as a type of brass knuckles/ flail. Slide your finger in, make a fist and swing away.

[–] Nonconfrontational@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

A walking stick, maybe with a steel spike on the bottom for grip. Could be weighted.

[–] orenj@leminal.space 3 points 3 days ago

A modern day shillelagh

[–] CaptainMan251@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Smart idea, actually.

Plus it looks cool AF

Hardwoods will be heavier than softwoods, better for self defense, but softwood are usually more straight.

[–] solrize@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

Flipper Zero?

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Caribiner like brass knuckles, sharpened toothbrush won't show on metal detectors, keys on a ring I between your fingers, anything can be made a weapon in the right situation. Bear spray, taser, knife, anything literally. But assume anything you present in a fight can be took and used on you.

The best advice is always to get out of the situation first and drive or run away. Good cardio serves a purpose in both fight and flight.

[–] Lobster@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

keys on a ring I between your fingers

If you think this works, try it on a bag and report back.

[–] Furbag@pawb.social 3 points 3 days ago

The keys as a punchdagger trick does work, the problem is that it hurts you just about as much as it will hurt them too. It should always be used as a last resort where deescalating and running away are not going to work.

Better to go to the hospital for your wounded hand than be dead because you lacked the strength or power to fight them off with regular punches.

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

My point was anything is useful when your life is at stake. Not technique or weapon is perfect. Better than being dead though.

[–] Paper_Phrog@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

No knifes - but something blunt and small. Like a flashlight or mace. Made of metal, wood or even hard plastic. Could be retractable.

[–] culprit@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

I carry a pocket knife mostly for functional purposes, but it also can be used defensively if required. A locking blade mechanism is definitely important. I guess a box cutter could work too.

[–] RotatingParts@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

A good pepper spray. Anything from POM for example.

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