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How do people have spontaneous sex in random places without washing? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago by Parvus@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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In popular culture as well as in personal stories told by many people there's often mentions of spontaneously having sex in random places and sometimes with random people: in cars, in clubs, in bathrooms etc. But how do people do that without taking shower beforehand? Penetration is imaginable - if there's no strong bad smell, it might be tollerable, but what about oral sex? Sounds vomit inducing.

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[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

@Parvus@lemmy.ml there is much that needs overriding.

i spend 75-80% of my time; outside of work and sleep; inhabiting establishments where spontaneous/random sex are the primary attraction for people to come and (besides bath houses or some sex clubs) they're the same as any other social gathering spots.

it same social club like setting; same conversations/dancing/etc.; same thing all around except for the only difference being a dramatically more permissive attitude for public displays of sex.

women are extremely rare in the places that i inhabit, but i do know for that fact that both men-only and coed spaces operate by almost identical rules when it comes to the sex hygiene -- show up with in good hygiene and you must be experienced enough with both penetration and fellatio to know how to prepare yourself accordingly if you seek either one. (ie. you're not welcome if you don't know how to clean yourself enough to be public; or to be penetrated; or don't know how to give head without vomiting -- grown and fully functional experienced adults only).

the only thing that's different between these establishments and any other social clubs (again excluding bath houses and some sex clubs) is the entry price tag for most straight men.