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You said, "your answer kind of proves the point to me." I was asking what it was that I said and what point it proved.
I was worried maybe such a brief question would be interpreted as hostile, but you had assured me the atypical people, of which you claimed to be, don't think that way, that it is is merely an annoying trait of NTs.
I'm starting to think that maybe you are over-interpreting autism into this context. Not that double-bind communication doesn't exist (thank you for sharing that, btw), but on-line we do away with much of the bother of non-verbal communication (as well as the ability to easily skip over boring conversations and the ability to obliquely reference shit knowing SOMEONE is going to get it), so there is much more parity between NT and atypical people.
I say this as someone with over 1k/comments Lemmy a month after having been here two months, and after having done all my "socializing" on line all my life--but it usually amounts to just this, having a series of one-off conversations with strangers, and it's the best I can do, socially.
Hey, thanks for continuing. I have to say, you're possibly right with overthinking. That's what we do. And hence, we often jump around to the point of getting lost in our own line of thinking - the latter being exactly what happened.
I am now trying to read through the fragments and have a very hard time following myself. If we were sitting together it might be easier, doing this asynchronous is hard work. So thanks for putting up with that and your effort.
Let me do some jumping around mobile and desktop and see of I can follow up.
Follow up edit:
OK I found where we disconnected. So I answered your op question basically and included autism and thought of that as self contained answer as if it was clear.
So it's kind of meta and apologies for that, it is convoluted. Having deep(er) knowledge of something one tends to miss out explanation of these things, which adds to the issue.
So the connection to autism with misunderstandings lies in autism itself, this literally are the social difficulties which are documented in medical papers.
Now, what might throw you off is the expected 'that happens to everyone'...and while that is true it's one of the discussions we have regularly. It's just on a totally different level.
Its complicated. But it is there, and I didn't want to hijack your topic or cause bother.
And while this explanation might likely be 'eh' for you, don't worry, hopefully you'll never have to worry much about it in your life and that's perfectly fine.
No worries. I discovered the autism lemmy and think I have broad phenotype autism, so I'm always interested in learning more.
I worked at a tech place and got along with everyone there. I thought it meant I was likable and it just different places are going to have different vibes, but someone pointed out tech people tend towards autism, so maybe all that was happening was that I find myself with a group of people who naturally shared my communication style... and that, basically still, I'm unlikable.