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There's often a skill that seem interesting, but I can't see doing anything for me in my day-to-day life. What have you learned that was a lot more effort than the payoff was worth?

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[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I got my Realtor's license without realizing just how much it cost to break into the business. I did it for a year, and then dropped it.

That's the only one I can think of. Typically, I don't learn on spec, I learn as I go, "on the job". So, what I'm learning is directly applicable to what I need to do.

For instance, I recently refurbished an old, cheap desk. I learned to apply laminate with contact cement. It's not hard, but it was my first time doing it. A few weeks later I'm at a counter at a business and they have laminate that is separating from the base, and I knew exactly why. They told me that someone had been hired just a few weeks earlier to repair the same problem, and it happened again. I knew how to fix it right, but I didn't need a job so I just commiserated with them.

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[–] 1egg4u@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I ruined my diaphragm learning how to burp my ABCs

It was only sort of worth it

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[–] buran@lemmy.today 7 points 2 days ago

Functions and derivatives, from late high school to college. They were extremely tedious, and I had to learn tens of formulas I don't use very often.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 days ago

Ventriloquism. I dont use it at all anymore. Learned it because i thought it would be fun and one could make some jokes with it but nah

[–] Bongles@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 days ago

Cursive I guess.

[–] karpintero@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

Even if you don't end up using it, the process of learning something often shapes us into who we are. So it's tough to say something isn't worth the effort.

For example, I learned to read sheet music when I was younger and taking piano lessons. It took a while and I don't really use that skill today since I mostly play by ear or tab (fretted instruments). However, I appreciate understanding what the notes mean and think it made me more musical overall.

[–] mvilain@fedia.io 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I learned one of the major orchestration tools (puppet), dabbled in the second (chef), and got a third running everything in my home lab (ansible). I refused to learn the 4th (salt). I figured my time was better spent learning python.

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[–] Kaligalis@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I can't learn skills I don't like to learn. As time wasted having fun is time well spent, I never learned a skill not worth the effort of learning it.

[–] toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I got half of my A+ certification before deciding fuck this and going into a different career. I can code very simply, I have very basic networking skills, and I use none of it. I'm amazed at people who can do it but I am not cut out for IT anything I don't think. Too much work.

[–] morgenman@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm a big believer that computation should be a skill we learn in school. I think a lot of normal people would benefit from being able to make some simple scripts in python for personal use or even just for fun. I hope you don't always think that the coding skills are useless <3. That said I agree the networking stuff you can throw out the window! I know enough to know that I will never fully understand how network topology works. Every time I get to the /24 or whatever that's called my eyes start rolling.

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[–] z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago

Customer Service Skills, aka the skill of eating shit.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I really can't think of any that weren't worth the effort. Some took more effort than others, but even if they don't make me any money, I don't regret learning then.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Is organic chemistry a skill? I took that class twice and still feel like it barely left an imprint on me. Other than having a fight or flight reaction to benzene rings.

Otherwise, electrical wiring at a very basic level. I’m never going to be confident enough that I’m not going to burn the place down to do it on my own, and what I did learn I don’t really have a use for. Basic electrical safety knowledge is really all you need to get through day to day life.

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[–] Lysergid@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Touching nose with my upper lip

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