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This guy was very helpful and informative, and there was a really bad accident on the other side of the highway he was going to have to deal with on the way back. I was going to tip ~60% but apparently I'm restricted to about ~30%.

It's very unfair and corrupt that a corporation of Uber's size can limit tips to the workers that are the entire reason they exist.

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[–] stephner74@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Bet the rate would be low in usd

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Uber is shitty and absolutely steals tips in inventive ways, source I am an Uber driver. But I know they don't limit it to a percentage because I get plenty of $10-$20 tips on ~$10 rides.

[–] TheKaul@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I used to do food delivery for Uber/DD/Grubhub, etc. so I kind of know how it goes... I also never use Uber personally except for the few times I've been to foreign countries without good public transport, so this is the first time I've seen asshole behavior on the customer side of Uber.

I'm well aware of how shitty they are to their drivers. I remember getting $4usd orders some days. It just makes me feel ill knowing that he probably got a shitty cut of the full bill, and I can't tip him what I feel is fair.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 1 points 41 minutes ago

Yeah, and I hear from riders about the prices so I know they are keeping more than 50 percent of it.

[–] Garfunkel@lemmy.ca 13 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Take a taxi, don't give your cash to a company who s on the BDS list.

[–] Ripley_Tripley@lemmus.org 1 points 1 hour ago

Thats eaiser said than done when Uber in alot of areas wiped out other taxi businesses.

[–] Dojan@pawb.social 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

"Or add more in cash." Honestly, I don't believe that Uber doesn't steal from tips so cash tipping is what I'd do if I was rich enough to use Uber.

[–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Uber drivers should start hauling around ATMs in their cars.

[–] Dojan@pawb.social 1 points 55 minutes ago (1 children)

Oh, that's a great idea. If they empty ATMs the they won't have to drive Uber anymore. And it's a victimless crime to boot.

[–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 points 5 minutes ago (1 children)

That's....not.... what I meant.

[–] Dojan@pawb.social 1 points 3 minutes ago

But it is a good idea!

[–] queeradjacent@sh.itjust.works 68 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Possibly to reduce "rides" that are just drug deals. But equally possible just Uber being shitty.

[–] barnacles@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Or scams, theft, or literal extortion. I'm not saying the limit should be 30%, but no limit would be extremely reckless.

[–] FisicoDelirante@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

Or even a simple feature against misclicks

[–] orenishii@feddit.nl 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Why would they use uber for that?

[–] queeradjacent@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago

Like someone else said it's money laundering, for drugs or anything else.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 31 points 14 hours ago

This ^.

It’s anti fraud.

[–] Vegan_Joe@anarchist.nexus 6 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

A cab ride cost you $400 before tipping???

[–] chewypoops@lemmy.world 17 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It really didn't occur to you that MX$ isn't USD?

[–] Vegan_Joe@anarchist.nexus 7 points 5 hours ago

Yes. I don't use Uber, so I did not know what MX$250.00 meant in that app.

It did not occur to me to refer to another country's currency in terms of dollars, which is how that looks to me (MX$ = "MX Dollars").

Also, thank you for correcting me, but you also come across as a bit rude.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The taxi ride I'm going to make today will probably cost that much. 20 miles, Germany. But my health insurance pays.

[–] Vegan_Joe@anarchist.nexus 4 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I think I would buy a bike, ride it there, and abandon it at my destination for that price!

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I have a bike, but I can't ride it because I've had an operation.

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

but my health insurance pays

I imagine that might have something to do with why he's taking a cab

[–] Burninator05@lemmy.world 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It looks like it is in Mexican Pesos. 250 pesos is about 13.50 usd.

[–] Vegan_Joe@anarchist.nexus 2 points 5 hours ago

Ah. That makes more sense. Thank you!

[–] jdr@lemmy.ml 18 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

It's very unfair and corrupt that a country of USA's size has an artificial culture of voluntarily paying people whatever because you can't just agree on an upfront price like rest of world.

[–] chewypoops@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Buddy, the screenshot is in Mexican Pesos. Why are you talking about the USA?

[–] jdr@lemmy.ml -3 points 7 hours ago

Buddy, I'll be you four pesos that whoever made that post and is using their phone in English and needing info from the driver is a visitor from north of the wall.

[–] YoSoySnekBoi@kbin.earth 11 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It's very annoying that people from the USA assume everyone else is. This coming from a USAian. The screenshot literally shows Mexican pesos

[–] EnsignRoApologist@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] YoSoySnekBoi@kbin.earth 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Figured I'd specify in this case since Mexico is also American, but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Mexico is even technically a US of A, because they're the officially (when translated to English) the United Mexican States, and in America

[–] YoSoySnekBoi@kbin.earth 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] njordomir@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

To agree on an upfront cost, we'd likely have to acknowledge that a fair cost would be too expensive for the buyer and not high enough for the seller, because all our productivity is lining someone else's pockets. But we're all temporarily embarrassed billionaires so we grit our teeth and tip to keep up the impression that the status queue is okay.

[–] PetDinosaurs@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

Stop. Please stop. The only people who like tips are the ones who receive them.

It's a coming of age to all of us who did work for tips when we realize just how much more we made when that was the obligation.

I did not make as much money per hour as I made as a 16 year old until several years after people called me doctor.

As my European colleagues ask "why don't you do it like us?" We do. Constantly. Well we try, but all the good people leave because they can make more money elsewhere.

And yes. This "feature" is to prevent money laundering. Not tipping.

[–] barnacles@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Other countries bothered to make actual laws to take it out of businesses hands. All this inflation and the value of human life is still at sweet fuck all in the states

[–] osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org 6 points 13 hours ago

So what you're saying is that wages are too low, got it.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 15 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

It’s to suppress money laundering and fraud.

Uber is greedy, but this makes perfect sense. If they didn’t do this, they’d already be bankrupt or shut down.

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 44 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

It's always a good idea to carry cash around, for circumstances like this

[–] TheKaul@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 18 hours ago

Agreed, but in this situation I was out of the car before opening the app to tip. If I had known beforehand, I definitely would've given him cash.

[–] WongKaKui@piefed.ca 30 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

How I see it is:

If you accidentally tapped an extra zero, you'd probably be extremely infuriated. I guess they made it this way so that doesnt happen. Cuz corporate dont wanna deal with chargebacks.

[–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 23 points 17 hours ago

the proper way to fix this would be to ask to hold a button for confirmation for any tip above e.g. 30%, not ban it

[–] thejml@sh.itjust.works 15 points 16 hours ago

Honestly, I'd give him cash because I'm sure Uber would find some way to take their cut. Say it's to cover credit card charges or processing fees or something.

[–] BehindetheClouds@reddthat.com 7 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

So I went down a rabbit hole on this... Yes, it's complete bullshit technicality.

It's called a "controlled tip", because it flows through the company payment process via credit cards or payment method. In case anyone was wondering. At least as far as I know.

Legally, tips are 100% property of the employee.

[–] barnacles@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 hours ago

It's because if they allowed this, it would take literal days for payment providers to take action when people inevitably get robbed/scammed etc.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Venmo it directly to the driver.

[–] TheKaul@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Valid solution, but I just checked the app and there's no way for me to contact the driver and there is no Venmo listed on his profile.

And knowing Uber, I doubt they would even allow drivers to provide links to tip them externally.

[–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

I doubt they could prohibit that, and even so, that would not be enforceable.

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