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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev -5 points 16 hours ago (26 children)

Yeah, it's obviously framed like this to dunk on the non-gamer for being goofy, but the reality is (most of the time) someone forcing an ultimatum like this is doing is because every other method failed. So, it's hard for me to see this anything other than a sort of power fantasy. I'm not sure what to call it. An "I'm right" fantasy? A high-horse fantasy? Not sure.

And the frustrating this is that goofy posts like this hide this so well, because yes, ultimatums are generally bad, but if you point out something like that, they'll just say something like the non-gamer just jumped to the ultimatum with no warning... But... It's just a single panel. There's literally nothing else.

Idk, it's just weird to me. Also feels a little misogynistic.

[–] Dichloromethane@lemmy.zip 5 points 15 hours ago (8 children)

This absolutely happens, and women can be toxic too. Not everything is misogyny. I've had some absolutely horrible girlfriends and women in my life. I've also had amazing women in my life. Instead of assuming everything is misogyny you could idk.. maybe consider that women arent always sunshine and rainbows?

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev -2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (6 children)

When did I say otherwise? I even specifically mentioned most of the time in my comment, acknowledging that it's not universal.

[–] antitomi@sopuli.xyz -3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] antitomi@sopuli.xyz 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Idk, it’s just weird to me. Also feels a little misogynistic.

You derailed the whole post because you have no concept of nuance. Now, this is a misogyny thread, because that's the only lens through which to perceive the world, apparently.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev -1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

No, minimizing my comment to one small thing I mentioned at the end in passing at an aside and saying that it was "derailing the whole post" is the derailing.

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Misogyny is one small thing.

Sounds like what a MISOGYNIST would say

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 33 minutes ago

Never said misogyny is a small thing.

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