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I started using chatbots yesterday and it surprised me how complete and articulate answers are. Main topics would be apparel, sewing, cooking, finance, ETFs, taxes, house maintenance, retirement.

Do you consider AI good enough to substitute human interaction? Because I remember a south park episode where randy marsh ignores his wife to interact exclusively with a bot. A parody of course but we have already plenty of AI porn and AI short stories for gullible people… and it works because they don’t stop watching (and sometimes believe it to be real).

I was always kind of an anti AI guy due to privacy, to avoid LLMs monetizing my questions and because I didn't want to be a moron who has nothing better to do than to watch AI slop, but this is a tool so pervasive and practical I’m only isolating myself if I opt out of it. Thoughts?

Are there any questions you won’t ask a bot so the company behind it doesn’t monetize your input?

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I've used Claude and ChatGPT. Of the two I prefer Claude for bouncing ideas off of because it's better at asking questions, but I like ChatGPT for search-like questions because it's better at citing sources when asked.

I've also used both platforms for deep, open ended conversations about things I'm interested in that I have no peers to discuss with. Neither platform is a very good substitute for another human, even with the collected knowledge of the public internet. What ends up happening is that the tend to skew very sycophantic but also oddly contrarian and if you spend enough time chatting with them you'll notice patterns in the way they construct messages. For example ChatGPT often uses rhetorical reframing (it's not X, it's Y), which is one of those once you see it you can't unsee it sort of things.

As a replacement for other humans it leaves a lot to be desired. As they don't have motivations or desires or interest you miss out a lot on what makes human to human interaction so compelling. The AI will never steer the conversation into an interest of their own or talk to you about things you hadn't considered before (unless you're asking it about a topic you aren't very familiar with).

You're not really missing out on anything by not using it and in fact until the technology is better understood and polished it might still be worth avoiding, especially if your first instinct is to use it as social interaction replacement.