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I really never have believed times improved, and i am almost positive things will only get worse.

30 years ago we had a future to look to, the unshittified internet, great music, affordable land/housing, affordable durable cars, people actually interacted in real life, no social media trash. Now, we have billionaires and LLMs. I don't see how anyone can possibly think times are better or going to improve.

Yes, everyone will say "civil rights improved" and yes thats maybe the only thing that has changed, however it's getting taken away every day again so I don't think you can even use that point anymore.

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 20 points 22 hours ago

Technology is better, crime rates better, environmental issues were better, LGBT rights and racism seemed better. But the gap between rich and poor has grown, wages have stagnated. And now I fear we are regressing.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 14 points 21 hours ago

Do you have any idea how many people were always shut out of those things, in the USA? Any idea that our prosperity at home came from brutal repression and denying them to people in the global South, Asia, Africa, far away from our eyes and ears?

We still have it good. Yes, not as good, but good. Are we sliding headlong at a gallop towards overt fascism at home? Also yes. What happens depends on us, and the sacrifices we're willing to make, now. Or not.

well things are certainly better for me...

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

Yee, unquestionably IMO. There is of course plenty of fucked up shit but we are doubtless better off in America, on the whole, than in 1995.

[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 5 points 18 hours ago

Times are looking tough right now but the pendulum can swing back at any moment. And when it does we won't be starting back at square one. Might be a few years and a few wars until then. Maybe just an arms race and the odd proxy war. No way to know. All we can do is resist and wait.

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Look up medical advancements over that time.

[–] bigfondue@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago (6 children)

True, but the population in industrialized societies have become less and less healthy at the same time. We have Ozempic, but we also have 30% of Americans with prediabetes.

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[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 12 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

For most of the world's population, things have significantly improved by almost every conceivable measure.

I strongly recommend Roslings book, Factfulness. The difference between how people think things have changed and what's happened is wild.

Edit: Just saw the (US tag, sorry.)

[–] kikutwo@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

I don't think they are at all.

[–] BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 9 points 23 hours ago

We drag them to the future. There is no other direction.

Some of this is just the noise that society makes though.

Our billionaires have a lot of power, but I don't think they're near the Robber Barrons of the US past. The LLMs are trash, but your boss used to put who you should vote for in your paycheck and the only media that existed was sole property of big business.

I'll grant that the last few decades have been rough, but it beats the past.

Just gotta keep moving.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

If we allow for the fact that nuance exists, and apply it to a response, then I agree:

No, things are definitely NOT better in a lot of ways. And I think you summed it up very well.

[–] radix@lemmy.world 8 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Everyone's experience will be personal to them, so it's not anyone's place to say your experience isn't worse, but as a whole, things are better.

Crime, no matter the category, is down ~33% since the mid-90s.
Median household income, adjusted for inflation, is up ~25% (despite the narrative).

Here's a post/graph I think about all the time: https://bsky.app/profile/simongerman600.bsky.social/post/3ktds56nqus25

Regardless of age, we are generally nostalgic for a time in our youth. Or even earlier. Notice that something like half (or nearly so) of people think "the most moral society" was before they were born.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Median household income, adjusted for inflation, is up ~25% (despite the narrative).

What's the ratio of household income to the cost of living? I understand that's going to vary wildly from place to place, but my point is income, as a statistic, seems meaningless without knowing the cost of living to see if people are actually able to afford rent, groceries, etc on that 25% increased income.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 5 points 22 hours ago

Median household income, adjusted for inflation, is up ~25% (despite the narrative).

Now do housing education and healthcare

[–] Worthess@discuss.online 3 points 23 hours ago

That crime statistic is going to spike drastically from 2025 on..

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Billionaires aren't new. I also don't really think LLMs will be as impactful as they get hyped or feared to be, and actually think AI as a whole outside mere chatbots will be positive if not the revolution it gets hyped as.

Honestly I do think there has been an improvement. It might not seem like that when viewing the past, but the past is easy to overestimate- we don't have to live it anymore.

As to civil rights, it should be pointed out that while recent years have seen regression in the US, its not always a regression to the point that things were at back then, and more importantly, the rest of the world does not necessarily share the political woes of the US.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Actually billionaires are a new thing. There were like 2 of them in 1992. Now there's what, over 15? I forget.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 21 hours ago

Not I. I grew up thinking overall we were on a good track and humanity would get better. The star trek utopia future type. This started to break apart in the early 90's but I held out hope that tech was going to get us through but that started to fall apart by the late aughts and really by the 20teens is about when I lost most hope. Brexit and the first trump win was pretty much the nails in the coffin. Biden did pretty well considering but you can see how behind we already are and how we would actually have to maintain a decent path in way we just had not for the last couple of decades.

[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 6 points 23 hours ago

Economically for the working class, no. But it’s undeniably better to be gay or coloured in western countries than it was 30 years ago.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Some things are better. Other things are worse.

I'd still go back to when I was 10 if given the chance tho.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 6 points 22 hours ago

As an example: luxuries have gotten cheaper while essentials have gotten more expensive.

Yeah, definitely better, but for me personally. I... had a shitty childhood.

[–] jjmoldy@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago

Some things are better. Some things are worse. Some things are about the same.

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 1 points 17 hours ago

That all depends on the people. Many numbers in many places are far better than they were three decades ago. I could make a list, but so can you, so why bother.

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

It really depends where. In the global south? Way better, in China, it's debatable. In Poland, way better. In the US, way worse. In the UK, way worse.

It's good to bring it into perspective with numbers like Hans Rossling used to do https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8t4k0Q8e8Y sadly he died and nobody took this over after him to visualize data in this way so publicly yet.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

What parts of the global south? Seems a lot of poverty, disease, famine, war in many places still.

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, but compared to 30 years ago overall it seems way less. But yeah, I would need to go through the numbers to be able to point to real data points, you're right.

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[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 2 points 22 hours ago

Ah, I also didn't see the "(US)" tag.

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