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Pretty much what it says on the tin, but for more context. My friends and I use Discord to play D&D and other TTRPGs. We also use it to send memes and just have conversations. We mostly do the chat, text, images, gifs, etc. But we also use the voice and video chat pretty regularly too. Screen share sometimes as well. So I'd like to try to find something that has all those features if possible.

The new ID or facial recognition requirement they are implementing is a deal breaker for a few of us, and so if I can set up some kind of alternative to make it a non-issue, I'd like to.

I'm running Ubunutu 22.04 LETS, AMD 3700X, 64GBRAM, 10x 6TB HDD, and and 2 4TB NVmE. Have a 2gb up/down internet connection. So I don't think we should have any issues making it work smoothly for 7 people.

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[–] warmaster@lemmy.world 19 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

TeamSpeek or Mumble.

Both have excellent voice chat.

[–] Bahnd@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Teamspeak still requires a license above a small user size, but has multiple clients that can accomodate different target audicences. The TS3 client still looks like it did back in the windows 7 days and the TS5 client is just copying discords homework (Not a clue what happend to 4 and I believe 6 is under development). Both use the same server backend and database structure so both work with one server and different user expirences.

Mumble is still the gold standard for handling large user bases (there is a reason big EvE Online alliances use mumble). It will take longer to set up, the configuration is handled by the server, not through authorized user accounts like TS.

[–] sbeak@sopuli.xyz 1 points 8 hours ago

Would Matrix be a good option? I think they have voice chat. There's a bunch of clients that you can pick from (Element, FluffyChat, etc) that seem pretty good

[–] klymilark@herbicide.fallcounty.omg.lol 14 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (4 children)

IRC, RocketChat, Slack. Technically Matrix, but for your usecase I wouldn't recommend it, as it's a bit heavy, and if you're just planning on using it with other people on the same server there's not a point.

EDIT: Just noticed the voice chat thing. I've used Jitsi for that, and it works well. Also self-hostable

[–] altkey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Jitsi is great as a Skype/Zoom replacement. It's not a 'room' on a server, but voice and video chats are stable and fast.

Yeah, depending on what it's used for it can do well. If it's for scheduled calls, like with a weekly tabletop game, it can definitely work well. If it's for the more casual pop in/out that happens on a lot of Discords it's worse. I just don't know of a replacement for that aside Matrix

[–] chris@lemmy.grey.fail 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Not a bad recommendation, but I disagree.

Rocket chat is just as heavy (in fact, it federates to Matrix), uses MongoDB, and has steadily pulled features behind a paywall for years. To me, if I'm hosting the service on my own machines and I'm not using their live support, the idea of paying for the privilege of using it is absurd.

Matrix has come a long way, including integrated voice and video chats.

Fair, yeah. I didn't realize Rocket had gotten heavy. I hadn't used it in years, just remembered it being okay when I had. I've switched to XMPP for the same things I was using RC for, admittedly, it's just... More like a traditional texting app than emulating Discord's IRC-like experience

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[–] aksdb@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

For 7 people you could look into Virola Messenger. Not open source but uses Mumble under the hood and is super lightweight. No electron shit.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Cyber@feddit.uk 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, we're using Conversations and it's fine for most things.

Will be self hosting prosidy "sooon"... and it'll all be in-house.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 9 hours ago

Good luck! Report results.

[–] Decronym@lemmy.decronym.xyz 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 27 minutes ago) (1 children)

Acronyms, initialisms, abbreviations, contractions, and other phrases which expand to something larger, that I've seen in this thread:

Fewer Letters More Letters
IP Internet Protocol
PIA Private Internet Access brand of VPN
SSH Secure Shell for remote terminal access
VPN Virtual Private Network
XMPP Extensible Messaging and Presence Protocol ('Jabber') for open instant messaging

4 acronyms in this thread; the most compressed thread commented on today has 13 acronyms.

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[–] StrawberryPigtails@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 15 hours ago

I would take a look at TeamSpeak or Matrix.

Of the two Matrix is probably the closest to Discord.

[–] Kubiac@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] ppb1701@ppb.social 1 points 10 hours ago

@Kubiac @Vaggumon Man I remember using that like 15 years ago or so at a job. I honestly didn't realize it was still going. cool!

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