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[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 9 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

I keep researching alternatives, and every time I circle back around toward Matrix, despite criticisms. Part of it is a question of what everyone is using. I pretty consistently see that groups who use or used to use irc are now using Matrix additionally or as a replacement.

Part of me would like xmpp to be the best answer, but I've yet to see an implementation that handles public communities well, particularly for anything that functions at all like Discord. Matrix seems to be at least gaining voice/video chat support?

[–] luciferofastora@feddit.org 2 points 10 hours ago

Using a Matrix room for our family, it has some built-in video call service (I think it's Jitsi?) that works great for regular family rounds. It has its hiccups too, but nothing we can't deal with so far.

[–] CreativeCider@feddit.org 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Installed element x and created my account today. As I am not self hosting at the moment the learning curved was basically just learning the new ui and wording for rooms and spaces.

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[–] LKPcharger@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

irc does looks cool BUT its hard to learn and you've gotta make your freinds download it

[–] m3t00@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

that will do it. was thinking about over-moderation and reddit mentality moderation ideas/power trips. never jumped into tw/reddit/ but the ad buisness model infected everything. no ads and contributions feel good too

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 47 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Note, this is happening for the same reason Reddit started enshittifying much harder all of a sudden. Discord wants to do an IPO and so they're going to suddenly start squeezing their users to make the numbers look good just in time for that IPO. Their bet is that they have enough momentum that enough people will stick with them long enough for the IPO to succeed, and after that happens, it's someone else's problem.

[–] Nickelalloy@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

So anyone who knows some good altenatives that are either FOSS or EU based?

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 8 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

Stoat (formerly Revolt), is a strong FOSS competitor with a Discord-like feeling
https://stoat.chat/
https://github.com/stoatchat

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

The last time I looked into Stoat (back when it was Revolt), they had basically no cryptographic capabilities enabled. Have they added any e2e features at all yet? Like, the overall impression I got from them it is that it's being developed mainly by someone who seems pretty new to programming in general, and that makes me feel pretty cautious.

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[–] Babalugats@feddit.uk 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

How many of these can handle 5-10 people in a voice chat?

Cause I use Discord weekly for running and playing TTRPGs, over voice, occasionally doing screensharing when one or more of the players are having issues with their PC

[–] sunbeam60@feddit.uk 7 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Making you aware that the age requirement probably comes from the EU. Seeking another EU based solution might introduce the same requirement.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 5 points 15 hours ago (4 children)

it's from the uk and texas.

[–] sunbeam60@feddit.uk 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It’s from everywhere tbh. But the EU is certainly the largest, most forceful block in getting age verification pushed through.

The only upside is that the EU proposal demands ZKP, whereas all others are happy to accept/prefer “prove who you are”. That’s obviously an insane privacy nightmare.

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[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago

and Australia

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[–] mrskipperoo@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

I heard sharkord allows for self-host. It's super early in development, but it's browser based for now, and I think if more people get on board and improve it, it'd be a pretty good alternative.

[–] Matombo@feddit.org 5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (2 children)

Element/Matrix and Stoat (formerly Revolt)

Both have discord like communities (albeit elements are a little different), self hostable and are open source

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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago (7 children)

Is there a reason people don't just go back to Vent/TS? Has it really been so long since those were the de facto options that people are in a quandary over what to do when Discord is clearly in the midst of rapid enshittification?

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

Most of my Discord usage is text-based or sharing images, and I tend to have casual presence in many of them at once, due to varying interest groups. As far back as I've known, those servers haven't focused much on that.

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[–] Aatube@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

this is not at all what i'm seeing on discord, and I think it's worthy of note that the article's sample is Reddit posts in r/discordapp. Discord users who use Reddit in general have a systemic bias that's close to ours, as opposed to the majority that is young Discord users.

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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 1 day ago (6 children)

The absolute shitload majority of users will not care about this enough to stop using the product

[–] eronth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I think it'll strongly depend on how intrusive it ends up being.

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[–] BaraCoded@literature.cafe 11 points 22 hours ago

So far, I have stumbled upon Stoat, a project called Sharkord, the Matrix network and the XMPP network.

Xmpp is both secure and snappy. Stoat doesn't federate but the interface is really Discord-like.

Some kind of XMPP based Stoat would be nice.

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