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[–] IratePirate@feddit.org 0 points 2 hours ago

Not an American, but I hear you make good blood clots. Bigly good blood clots. Some people say: the best. So let's put our hope in that. Let's make the blood clot great again.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (5 children)

Uh, we have the best military, the best medicine, the best universities, broadest cultural reach... etc.

Life in liberal blue progressive areas, is highly desirable and really great, but it's very expensive.

It's just that you aren't getting access to any of it unless you're part of our social elite. If you're in the bottom 90% of the economic status, you are only ever going to get access to the middling/average stuff.

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[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

As a fellow American, I'm going to make a big assumption here and advise you to engage with more people outside. Lemmings are great and all but we do not represent the real world. I can say this has helped me and man, am I worlds better for it.

Right now, the internet is quasi-weaponized against everyone's better mental health. A lot of people are being fed propaganda that aligns strongly with their beliefs, with many people being sucked into a narrow, amplified, and semi-fictional view of reality. You have to dig deep to find real journalism, facts, and then puzzle together a less biased worldview; few people are there to do any of that legwork for you these days. It's all exhausting and a recipe for mental illness if you do it constantly.

Instead, try to get out there and just talk to one person; better yet a stranger. Even if it's just smalltalk. Even if it's about the weather with a librarian or a checkout clerk. ANYONE. If you can make your way to a club, mutual-aid hub, local meetup, whatever... that's even better. The goal is to just verbalize with other humans. The rest will follow from there.

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[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago (6 children)

American here.

No. We're living in the early stages of a fascist dictatorship. And we've been doing this to the rest of the world for way too fucking long. The sooner we come to grips with the fact that the hens have come home to roost and we're reaping what we've sown, the sooner we can actually take it down and build something better.

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[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 20 points 10 hours ago

It's very easy to disparage a nation state due to the actions of their government and forget that there are good people everywhere that are well intentioned and trying to do the right thing. The No Kings protest movement is a good example of that. Building solidarity movements with humane values is the way we change society for the better.

[–] dg2445@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

All hope is false, unless engineered, built action by action. You want hope? Build it.

[–] TractorDuffy@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

Who are you talking to?

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 4 points 7 hours ago

I don't think there was much of a reason to ever be proud of it, if you're ashamed now. You can still be proud of what your fellow americans put out : on the culture and research fronts most notably... the US shines far, even though I hear the Trump admin hurt some universities.
But on the political level ? it's still the murderous empire it has been for the past 80 years, just a little more open about it

[–] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

the lgbtq+ rights in your country seems amazing compared to my own

[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

they are being eroded fast tho

check literally any LGBTQ+ focused news site

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

No they aren't. They are being eroded in red states, blue states are expanding them.

Hell, San Francisco has a UBI program that' exclusively for LGBT folks.

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[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 22 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

You should be proud to be human.

Not to be born within some imaginary line drawn on a map, in an area that later got "cleaned" as much as possible of everyone else not speaking the same language or worshipping the same god.

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Pride comes with accomplishment.

Being human, being American, being male, being white, these are all accidents of birth. There's no reason to take pride in any of it.

Bring born in to a disaffected class of people, being gay, or a person of color, and overcoming that adversity to any measure of success, that merits some pride.

But just being human? Anybody can do that.

[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I understand but I think we call pride also the sense of belonging to a chain of individuals that achieved growth of knowledge, rights, scientific discoveries and engineering results.

It is a meaning of the word that would easily lend itself to manipulation but also one that allowed individuals to contribute and to stand on the shoulders of giants.

In that sense, the highest level one would easily be being human.

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[–] cabillaud@lemmy.world 10 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Not US here. I sometimes think that Americans are nice individuals, generaly speaking, but they are collectivly ferocious.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Americans are radically different depending on what region, and social class, of American you are interacting with.

But that's true of any country. Every country hates and is embarassed by the poor uneducated douchebags, and loves their elite well-off cultured population.

UK has way more chavs living in shitty places with bad economics, than it does 'posh' people with nice accents living in London. USA is no different.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

For some additional geographic context: The United States is roughly the size of Europe. A little larger if you include Alaska, a little smaller if you don't. The entirety of England is roughly the size of Illinois.

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[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I'd say it has made most Americans stop taking democracy, or even sanity in our leaders, for granted. We've always looked out over the oceans at "them" and pitied those countries with crazy leaders and corruption and now it has taken roost here.

[–] reksas@sopuli.xyz 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

i'd say only americans that have cause to be proud of themselves are the ones who are actively opposing what is happening to your country.

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[–] Sgt_choke_n_stroke@lemmy.world 15 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

No we're at the end of an empire and the dawn of a new world. Our bases across the middle east will be abandoned. More will be emptied or destroyed. Our influence across the world will shrink more than it is now.

The states we have may stay. Alaska might try to break off and join Canada in 50 years. Hawaii might join Australia and New Zealand as well.

Unless we get a political party that will advocate for taxing the fuck out of the rich to invest in america via trains, healthcare and R&D.

Don't get your hopes up.

[–] fierysparrow89@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago

Whatever may come, there is one sure thing: nobody will trust the US ever again. It may take the old allies a while to find their footing and they may still be dependant on the US. But that relationship will be more like that of the abusive caretaker vs abused teen. Biding their time until they finally can exit the dependance.

[–] ZMonster@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

Alaska might try to break off and join Canada in 50 years.

I wish we would do that today. But unless the military and oil leaves the state, we're still carpetbagged by southern evangelical morons. This state is solid red for now. And they think Canada is socialist because they think it's bad and that's all they know. We're not going anywhere.

There has been an increase interest in NATO and I believe they are working to contribute more to defense because they can no longer expect help from the USA.

[–] zbyte64@awful.systems 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Yeah, we are about to get served a big slice of humble pie so bring your appetite. The pain we are all experiencing is there to tell us we cannot continue the way we were. We had the option to change in the past but didn't because it was too hard, now there is no avoiding change.

[–] andrewrgross@slrpnk.net 43 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

I think it's easier to find success stories if you ask this question about your town than your country.

A few weeks ago I took my kid to a parking lot by a park so he could practice biking, and when we got there there were nearly a dozen kids biking, and a band was playing etherial middle eastern music next to us to a crowd as the full moon hung over a lake draped in light of the setting sun.

It was gorgeous, and free, both financially and in spirit. It was a beautiful appreciation of people and art from across the world. I thought for a moment that it was a picture of what I'd like America to one day be, then realized that I was in America, and it was already a picture of what America IS. It's unfortunate that America is also many terrible other things. But America is also this. And that spirit is what brought these musicians or their parents to America, and eventually to that parking lot by the lake under the full moon.

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[–] lithiumground@lemmy.world 10 points 12 hours ago (12 children)

The collar of the USA is in the hands of Zionists/AIPAC. The USA is managed by Zionists

[–] FlyingCircus@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

I think it’s more likely that the ruling class owns both the USA and Israel, and use them together to accomplish their goals. AIPAC is just the mechanism of control and Zionists are just the useful idiots.

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[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 104 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Nationalism tells you your nation is what to be proud of, but that's dangerous and manipulative.

Instead, focus on the people. You can be proud of the people who are protesting, people who are running secret grocery runs for people hiding from ICE, people promoting progressive or scientific thought in threatened educational spaces, and so on.

There are still plenty of us left in the US, some against our will, and you can still be proud of them for still trying when so many others have given up.

[–] shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 hours ago

This is true wisdom.

[–] Wilco@lemmy.zip 6 points 11 hours ago

No. This is late stage capitalism, it is over for the US.

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