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AI facial scan technology keeps saying she looks 15 but I've known her for a long time, when she was 21 she looked 12ish. When she was 18 she looked about 10. She says her hormones were checked when she was 24 and they were normal, she says she only looks young because she has big eyes and a small nose. Starting about 2 years ago her face started getting acne, and any treatments just made it worse. the only thing that helped was antibiotics. it isn't just one or two spots, she says she's getting up to a dozen new spots at once and parts of her face are constantly sore. Some of the spots are very tiny, like pore-sized, and get white heads. She never had acne when she was in school or college and she doesn't wear any makeup and hasn't tried anything new. Before her period she gets very irritated-hyper, one time she got so pissed off at a pretty mundane thing she threw a mug at the wall. Her bloods are normal too since she had those checked recently. She also told me once that her sweat is "very sticky" rather than watery.

Since 31 is still very young, is this normal for her age? I was told acne typically stops by 45. I mean for a cis woman (I'm trans so idk if this is just normal cis woman things)

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[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 4 points 26 minutes ago

No one here is qualified to diagnose your friend.

[–] cecilkorik@piefed.ca 48 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Get her to talk to a doctor, don't diagnose her and don't ask internet strangers to diagnose her. This is what doctors exist for.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If someone told me they AI face scanned me because I was moody and have acne I would honestly let them have it.

Sounds like she needs to see a doctor.

[–] Talonflame@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

She did it herself. I don't take people's photos lol. I've told her to get checked up again when she has the time.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 41 minutes ago

Wise advice.

[–] one_old_coder@piefed.social 36 points 3 hours ago

AI facial scan technology

slop slop

[–] Karabola@lemmy.world 30 points 2 hours ago

I know you're worried about your friend, but her medical situation is not your business unless she specifically asked you for your help.

[–] finalarbiter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

It's cool that you care about your friend, but it's inappropriate to be posting about another person's medical issues unless you have their explicit consent. It's also just not your business.

Also, as others have said, the armchair doctors here cannot provide any real actionable information. If she is concerned, she should go see her primary care provider or a dermatologist.

[–] Talonflame@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 hour ago

She asked me to post this

[–] Photonic@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago

Yes acne can still occur at the age of 31. It can also be a symptom of PCOS (as well as the irritability, but some women simply have more severe PMS than others). If she was on certain birth control meds it could have suppressed the acne before and when she stopped taking them caused her to break out.

Of note: a blood test that was done 7 years ago doesn’t say much about today. It is just a reflection of what her hormone levels were at the time.

[–] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Is she on birth control (i.e. the pill)? Because the way you react to those hormones might change over time and this does sound like a hormone problem. I'm not a doctor though and also not a woman.

[–] broton33@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Look up PCOS and PMDD. These could be indicators. I am not a doctor or professional.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 2 points 2 hours ago

Are you describing delayed puberty? Is she aging slower than everybody else? She might outlive us all!

Honestly though, I don't know what causes acne. Might be best to consult a doctor. And regardless of what the doctor says, she probably has to eat healthily.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today -4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago

Have her talk to a doctor, full stop. There could be a lot of things going on here, she needs a professional workup to address the root cause.