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[–] ivan@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago

Had a situation twice where one particular friend would antagonize other one (different people in both cases), and after some time rest of us would have that "oh!" moment, with that second friend no longer being a friend now.

As for myself - became good friends for almost 10 years now with a person who's first impression to me was not good to say the least.

[–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

What are the vibes though?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago

All the time.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I don't think there's a singular bad vibe detector though. And even within a narrow type, there's still multihlevels of threat perception, often paired with expectations vs one's ability to handle it.

Like, some people have experienced trauma or other bad shit with certain things and get a bad vibe from some stuff, but not other stuff or situations.

And also imagine a manipulative person in a group of, let's say, ten people. Let's call them person M (for manipulator). Then there's person A and person B. Person A sees person M doing shitty stuff, but person A is way smarter than person M, and knows they (person A), is gonna shut down person M's behavior. And all of that just fits regular, casual conversation for person A, so they don't see it as really that "shitty", it's just an attempt for sway or favor or whatever.

But, person B sitting in the corner only has mild experience with person M's actions and classifies it as a "bad vibe" and doesn't know how to handle it very well, and so makes a mental note to poop in person M's food later.

Person A may be a 900 year old sith CEO and this just isn't an issue, whereas person B may be a 6 month old drooling wet nosed monkey. Both can notice, but they perceive and handle the situations VERY differently.

🌞 🌈 vibes~ 🌈 🎉

[–] tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 23 hours ago

Dude. There are non-shitty ways to be subtle. But being shitty is being shitty. If person A was actually cool, they wouldnt tolerate bullying person B. But that is just my take.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 2 points 1 day ago

Nah, i was born without the vibe detector. So I'm probably the one giving away bad vibes.

[–] ArchsageRamases@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Me with most people

[–] homes@piefed.world 1 points 1 day ago

Yes, although occasionally, it’s me

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