this post was submitted on 14 Jun 2026
203 points (92.1% liked)

Lemmy Shitpost

40327 readers
3836 users here now

Welcome to Lemmy Shitpost. Here you can shitpost to your hearts content.

Anything and everything goes. Memes, Jokes, Vents and Banter. Though we still have to comply with lemmy.world instance rules. So behave!


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means:

-No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...

If you see content that is a breach of the rules, please flag and report the comment and a moderator will take action where they can.


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Memes

2.Lemmy Review

3.Mildly Infuriating

4.Lemmy Be Wholesome

5.No Stupid Questions

6.You Should Know

7.Comedy Heaven

8.Credible Defense

9.Ten Forward

10.LinuxMemes (Linux themed memes)


Reach out to

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules. Striker

founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 29 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

I love the audacity of food places still asking for a tip on a pickup order when I'm ordering online. Like wtf. This stupid tipping culture needs to die and people who work in the industry just need to be paid fairly. This is insane.

The last time I ate at Steak n Shake, you order from a kiosk, fill your drink at the soda fountain, pick up your own food from a window, and bus your own table. Those fucks had the audacity to suggest a 20% tip at the kiosk

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] Dryad@lemmy.world 96 points 2 days ago (10 children)

If you can’t afford to pay your employees a living wage, do better.

load more comments (10 replies)
[–] canniest_tod@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (9 children)

A lot of people in the comments are remarking on the tip culture in America. Friendly reminder that it's not the culture that necessitates tipping here. We have a tipping economy when it comes to a lot of service work. $2.13 is the minimum wage for servers in the states. This is less than what could rightfully be called a starvation wage, so tipping is a social necessity. You might think that's crazy and we should change it, and you would be correct.

load more comments (9 replies)
[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 days ago

I tip 0% at places where I go to the counter, order, wait, pay, and retrieve my food. That is a base level expectation, not a service or a favour.

It helps that we don't have a 'tipping wage' anymore.

[–] pewpew@feddit.it 21 points 2 days ago

We don't have the tip culture here lol

[–] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (6 children)

40% is an obvious strawman, but it's a shitpost so that's ok.

No one likes tipping culture. But regardless of what we want to happen, the reality is in the US there are jobs that depend significantly on tips for living wage. It is a well-understood social convention, and by making a purchase you are implicitly accepting the expectations associated with the customer. By taking the worker's time and refusing to pay that part of their wage, you are underpaying them. Your protest against tips in no way inconveniences their shitty employer or otherwise incentivises them to do better. The only one worse off is the service worker you stiffed, and nothing improves.

If you do want to actually change things, you can become politically involved to try to improve their wage so they aren't actually dependent on tips. Or you can boycott them by taking your business to places that don't rely on tips. That way the shitty employer actually loses business to places with better practices. But don't be a dick to an underpaid worker while pretending to have the moral high ground.

[–] cley_faye@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

you are underpaying them

I'm not their employer, so I'm ok with that.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Servers themselves are opposed to change because of how embarrassingly overpaid they are

[–] jve@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wonder how much of this is due to the high class restaurants where servers do make a great wage (low six figures depending on the restaurant) and the lesser paid servers thinking they’ll get those jobs, some day.

To think that most servers are “embarrassingly overpaid” is pure fantasy.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

That’s one of my objections for sure. I’ve gotten better service at neighborhood diners than some high end restaurants, yet 100% tips at a diner is less than the basic 15% at the high end restaurants. That diner server should have the opportunity to earn the same as that server at the high end place, yet it never happens

And yes tipping is sexist. A hot young server in a short skirt out-earns every time, regardless of service.

If you’re going to claim tipping is for good service, then a good server should be able to out-earn regardless of the restaurant and regardless of whether they’re are “hot”. That doesn’t happen

This. We had it on the ballot in Massachusetts and it got voted down in big part because a lot of tipped staff thought they would make less money from tips and they get brought up to the regular minimum wage if they don't make enough anyway.

That's fine, we're a democracy I guess. Meanwhile I basically stopped eating in and tipping and it's saving me loadsa money. Win win.

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

10% is standard. Always has been and always will be (at least for me). Can go higher, but only if service is exemplary. "Just doing their job" level service gets 10%.

And don't give me shit about inflation and the cost of living. The meal is twice as expensive now, which means a 10% tip is already twice as big as it used to be.

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 36 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Guess what, my standard is 0% because luckily I don't live in a country where people are underpaid

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

You probably hate freedom.

/s

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] BlackLaZoR@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago
[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

Man, actual restaurant resraurants, non chain / non franchise... are just... largely not going to be a thing in a year or two, in the US, at this rate, outside of extreme high end places.

Margins aren't there anymore, doesn't matter how much owners gaslight servers, or anybody gaslights consumers... if you're microwaving premade stuff... people can do that at home.

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] Elgenzay@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't get why it's supposed to be percentage-based. I tip a fixed amount, regardless of how much i spent

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 days ago

yeah I still tip (in Ontario, where servers make at least the same minimum as everybody else) but it's just a rounded up value to even out my bill, and it's a reasonable amount (a few bucks at most). as always, if whoever is providing a service for me did a truly above and beyond job, I will tip that. but I am rarely in that scenario when eating out, or anywhere else.

there's just no reason that wait staff should be making an extra $30+ an hour when retail staff etc don't make any tips. pay them all more. that's my contribution.

load more comments
view more: next ›