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A number of brand new accounts have popped up shilling their paid for applications.

Is this within the rules? Is the community happy with this? Could mods clarify this in the rules?

Either allowing advertising, or banning it entirely.

my point is - there is a difference between an open source homegrown project that might be useful, vs closed source paid for projects from brand new accounts

some replies are misunderstanding, somehow.

I am against

brand new accounts who:

  1. first post is a brand new project
  2. project is closed source
  3. project will cost money
  4. is asking for free testing
  5. the post is literally an advertisement
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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 57 minutes ago

I think its funny that anyone who has closed source software thinks the best place to advertise it is in the federation. I love the fediverse but if it was the fact that it was gnu that I checked it out. I would totally not be here if it was closed source.

[–] EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago

This is the selfhosted community. Not the Free, Open Source community.

I think you can infer the rules from the name here. The stuff you post must be related to software you can host on your own hardware. It need not be free, nor open source.

Now your point about spam from brand new accounts that are literally just ads on the other hand is valid.

[–] warmaster@lemmy.world 1 points 42 minutes ago

I think they should be allowed. However, I wouldn't even date to touch them with a stick from afar in VR.

Plex was the last proprietary thing I ever selfhosted and it's been a perfect reminder.

[–] Faceman2K23@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

if they are obviously bot or dedicated marketing accounts, then no I dont think they should be here.

However, I'm not 100% opposed to closed source/paid software being discussed here, but it should clearly marked as such, with a flair that people can filter out if they so choose.

If someone posts asking about whether there are any alternatives to a paid closed source program, that's a totally valid conversation, and if it turns out there is no FOSS alternative, then we have to talk about paid closed alternatives, find the one that offers the best value and vet for trustworthiness.

The rules say nothing about selling a paid service, but maybe "no spam" should be updated with some clarity on self promotion, so perhaps you can self promote your FOSS service with the appropriate flair, but if you are selling a paid closed service it shouldn’t be allowed?

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

discussing a product is not the same as someone literally advertising their paid for product.

are you ok with advertising on this community?

[–] Faceman2K23@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 51 minutes ago

if they are obviously bot or dedicated marketing accounts, then no I dont think they should be here.

I would like the rules to make clear what is acceptable.

self promotion of a FOSS project is acceptable in my opinion, as long as it is clearly titled as self promotion and isn’t done in a spamming way (such as carpet bombing multiple communities with bot posts). I'd also say that donation-seeking in those posts should be kept to the creators own web pages, not in the posts themselves too.

there is a pretty easy line to draw for what is blatant advertising and what is genuine discussion of a paid service. that's not that hard to moderate, especially when accounts are new, and carpet bombing the same posts to multiple communities, that is clearly spam.

[–] placebo@lemmy.zip 19 points 4 hours ago

I'm here for genuine interactions with other people. So I'm not a fan of ads from brand new accounts that will never engage with the community or enrich it.

[–] realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip 9 points 4 hours ago

I don't think "selfhosting" and "paid for" goes hand in hand because, at the end of the day, the application somehow will still contact some authentication server or some similar bullshit. That's the contrary of what most people want from selfhosting.

I think this community should stick to actual OSS, free applications, not some semi-corporate bullshit.

[–] Shadow@lemmy.ca 130 points 7 hours ago (30 children)

I think new accounts that show up to shil their app should be banned. They're not actively participating in the community, it's just spam. There's been a huge uptick recently.

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[–] crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 6 hours ago

I don't want this community, or any community on Lemmy for that matter, to become a lucrative platform for advertisers. If someone wants to promote their own product that they made, they should have some credibility as a real person beforehand. Not a brand-new account trying to sell a subscription to an app that's essentially still in open beta.

[–] Mordikan@kbin.earth 61 points 7 hours ago

At it's heart, this is what @selfhosted is meant for:

A place to share alternatives to popular online services that can be self-hosted without giving up privacy or locking you into a service you don't control.

I would say that members talking about paid/closed products they use (ex. "I connect to this via Tailscale" or "I use company ABC for hosted VPS") to accomplish something is fine, but marketing or job boarding (ex. "Looking for QA on my commercial product") is not.

[–] chisel@piefed.social 24 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Advertised? I'd vote no. Discussed? I'm all for it.

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[–] mereo@piefed.ca 35 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (22 children)

I selfhost because I want to be in control of my data and own it. Closed software is the antithesis of that. They're just bots trying to advertise their software.

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[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

If it's closed source but can be self hosted, what is the business model? I think it would be hard to fight piracy in that case. If it requires connecting to a service periodically for licenses and has no free version that doesn't require that, then I believe it should be banned. I don't consider that self-hosted. If the company disappears and the served goes down, its dead. That's just running on your hardware, but not under your control. If the application is open or can be run locally without connecting to their servers and the paid portion is an add on like working as a proxy or something, then I have no real issue with that.

That said, there definitely should be a higher standard for users who are only marketing here. They should be making posts specifically for this group, not just sharing generic ads. The post should specifically state why it's useful to self-hosters and thus relevant to the group.

Unraid is an example, that I consider fairly reasonable. Sure, it is a subscription.

But all of the services are docker containers. What unraid brings to the table is a nice management UI, and the ability to mix and match drive of different sizes in a single raid pool. It makes having a fairly resilient self hosting setup easier than trying to do all of this stuff from scratch.

Nice features sure, that many people find worth paying for, even if I don't. But they are just nice to haves. If the company ever dies, it's absolutely possible to export the data and move to say, portainer, or docker via the cli, or podman, or anything that can run containers.

[–] moonpiedumplings@programming.dev 17 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

On reddit, there is a community called r/progressionfantasy, which is about a specific type of fantasy fiction. They have a rule that self promotional posts (for paid books) must be preceeded by 10 comments, and actual engagement with the community.

This is a reasonable compromise, in my opinion. Known community member who has been answering questions and contributiting to discussions?

I would be okay if they dropped a paid product of good quality and with a reasonable business model (please no vibecoded slop).

But drive by ProductNameAccount users who have never posted on lemmy before a bunch of self promotional posts? Yeah ban that shit.

[–] zutto@lemmy.fedi.zutto.fi 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

With the advent of AI bots trying to flood into Lemmy communities, I don't really see this as a viable option on the long run.

[–] moonpiedumplings@programming.dev 1 points 54 minutes ago

It is possible to detect and moderate them, as long as your mods haven't been disappeared and replaced by people who's job is to accept bribes. And also when we can actually see people's history, since reddit now has an option to hide your history from others because of course.

My usual method is to focus on content, rather than writing style. The AI bots can write a lot, or be brief, or whatever, but they don't actually contribute to the discussion. They just kinda paraphrase and restate what has been said, or when trying to sell a product they disagree and go "Are you sure this isn't an problem?" to everybody in the thread telling them that it's actually a skill issue.

Sometimes they'll be a little better, but it's often surface level stuff that can be found at the top of a google search of keywords.

This also makes it possible to tell the difference between ESL speakers who are using AI to clean up their writing style, and true bots. Since the ESL speakers will actually have something to say, but bots won't.

And then: https://xkcd.com/810/

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