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Just yesterday, I completed an application for snap benefits. That's all I wanted and needed assistance with. Because I'm a part-time worker, my finances at times get strapped because I'm paying off a loan from a bank and it makes my working budgets feel a little compressed. I need some breathing room here.

I hope I get them but I never intend to be on it forever, I just need some financial security and resource assurance. I've always tried being a person who looked to things like this and only go to them when I needed them, not because I wanted them and mooch off from them.

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[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

I had to go through all of this so many times when struggling with a failed life and business.

I had ONE good agent who helped me and reminded me that I pay for all these programs, and the agent's job is to help us qualify for them, not to judge nor moralize any part of it.

All the other agents judged and moralized to a degree that I eventually let my SNAP funding expire because I couldn't keep going in there and facing the people scouring my business receipts for some implied wrongdoing.

Despite that, it's still your right, you still paid for all of it, even if you don't pay income tax, there is tax on anything and everything you buy and do, so you're not doing anything other than collecting what you've loaned to the government. Hold your head up and look them in the eye if they ever challenge you, and apply for every goddamn program you're eligible for, and if anyone gives you shit about it, you talk to their manager, and if they don't help, talk to that person's manager.

(One agent who was openly hostile and lectured me about "looking capable of working" and had a bad attitude through the whole process actually got fired because I complained, the manager of that DES office actually called me to let me know and to tell me they felt bad about it and that it's not their job to be judgemental or invalidate others.)