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Sounds like you need a bicycle. Not only do you increase range but you can also meet other bike people.
That being said bike people are certainly a certain type of odd, and if you're looking for women, we're definitely a minority of people really into bicycles. Like, I love bikes, if you're interested in them look for bike groups and see if there's a bike repair coop nearby, 10/10 hobby, especially if you're looking for left wing people who aren't super self destructive.
I have been actively involved in the bike community in my city. There is about 1 woman for every 100 dudes, and she's already dating another bike guy who is way more into bikes than you. It is an insane sex ratio. Also a lot of the bike people have nothing else going other than bikes and it's just straight up weird. Like they work with bikes all day, then go on 6 hour bike rides, and spend any free time looking at pictures of bikes on social media.
The only 'bike' thing I know that has a good balance of men to women is triathlons. And that's a sport people mostly come to from running or swimming, which also have much better gender ratios. In my city 'run clubs' have become dating hot spots.
Yeah, though in my experience the bike girl with a bike guy boyfriend is the one problematically into bikes in their relationship. Like, he's had to put his foot down about no more new bikes.
Like as a woman into bikes, I really wish there were more of us and I know a lot of women who casually are interested, but I think especially with how hard-core into bikes a lot of people in the scene are scares people off. That and a lot of women who don't have mechanical skills are uncomfortable trying for fear of breaking something or facing judgement.
In the city I used to live in a lot of the bike women I met got into it after burning out of some form of anarchist activism, and they tended to be some of the more balanced people in the bike scene that I knew.
So yeah, more casual group bike rides that encourage newer people and work to make women feel comfortable would be awesome for the hobby. And getting a second hobby would be awesome for a lot of people in the hobby.
I gave up on bike people. There is just way too much bullshit involved in cycling communities, and way too many people who are bitter that other people ride different kinds of bikes than they do. Way too many of them would rather bitch about other cyclists than actually just ride their bikes and be happy.
I used to teach people how to fix bikes but I quit after it went from a fun thing to be being lectured about how 'problematic' I was for having a penis and that what we 'really need' is woman-identifying person to teach women. Because all men are inherently evil or something.
Bikes are suppose to be fun. Not a proxy for people's identity and political issues. But sadly that is what people prefer, to create their little tribes and be an asshole to anyone who isn't part of their tribe.
guys with ginger dreadlocks.
You all realize people commute on bikes all over the world that aren't bike messengers, hipsters, or obsessive "bike people" right? A bike is a vehicle, not a flag.
OP said he's in car centric america, in my experience those are the only people who regularly ride bicycles.
also guys with no sense of humor who are easily triggered.
most people who ride bikes aren't 'bike people'.
anymore than most people who drive cars, are 'car people'.
and the vast majority of people who ride bikes want nothing to do with 'bike people' because they are weird and obnoxious.
Oh jeez, by bike people I meant others that ride a bike. Not necessarily doing nude bike rides or critical mass