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People on reddit and lemmy have weird ideas about relationships ought to be.
Provided that both people are adults then age in itself isn't a problem.
I mean, if a 25 year old has several 50 year old "boyfriends" who each give her a stack of pocket money each month and pay her rent and everything, more power to her right?
The problems arise from a power imbalance. If an older guy has manipulated a younger woman into getting trapped in a shit relationship then that sucks but its not the age that's the problem.
I largely agree that it’s not the age that’s the problem.
The thing is that the age is a useful proxy for all sorts of things that might lead to such power imbalances.
Including:
It isn’t absolute, and context matters, but it is a useful proxy.
Forgive me but, describing age as "a useful proxy" just sounds like shitty behavior to me. I'm not trying to say you're a shitty person, just that your comment seems to be sane-washing prejudism.
FWIW I agree. A 50 year old guy "dating" a 25 year old woman has an increased likelihood that a power imbalance exists. However, it's still profiling and prejudiced and a generalisation.
For example, domestic violence may be more prevalent among indigenous communities, but suggesting that indigenous status is "a useful proxy" for a determination that domestic violence is more likely is obviously inappropriate.