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I dont think thats correct, anger is generally more when you feel violated or in danger -> activate aggression -> take action to resolve
A lot of different things can produce anger. Frustration can produce anger. Stress can produce anger.
Often things that may be no one's fault (or no ones but your own) and yet it's often a natural reaction to direct that anger at whoever or whatever it's in front of you.
Right but I think their def is not robust or close enough. Anger is based on activating you to focus on someone or something hurting you or causing danger for you
I would just make the general comment, in response to reading the various exchanges in this thread, that there is a lot of theory around this stuff, and yes there are studies that support some of it, but these theories are by no means something that should be taken as 'fact.' To the extent you find them useful in navigating the terrain they attempt to map, great, but I would avoid getting locked into these ideas in figuring out how to deal with emotions (your own or others) in real life.