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So you're saying that when you have sex with someone, you don't know if you're raping them, but you will find out later and that's normal?
Have you ever had sex? And if so, for how many have you been convicted?
I am saying, that a person can consent now, and then claim no consent and sue you later. Which I hope never happens to you, but the idea is quite an useful loophole.
That's a poor choice in partners if it's someone who's trying to fuck you over. And like the list shows, many "yes" are actually a no. Ive never had issues with any partner I had, as I'm respectful and clearly show them a "no" is an answer that's completely fine. Also, I prefer both not to be drunk or under the influence of whatever when it's the first time because it doesn't feel real and I'm not sure if my partner is still happy with their decision the day after (or me). Even one night stands go with proper communication beforehand and sober (or after only ~2 beers).
So consent should always be defined beforehand, without doubt.
I've also cockblocked many because I was in doubt people would be happy with their decision the day after. "Nope, not going to happen, I will bring you home now. If you still want this tomorrow, you should plan a date together and see where it goes. But tonight, it's going to be a hard no. Off to bed now."
In all cases they thanked me the day after, whether they still wanted it or not. Better safe than sorry.
By being extra careful and respectful I may have missed out on many opportunities, but at least there's no one who had regrets or fell forced or anything like that in the moment or the day after.
Good for you.