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I watch a lot of TikTok and noticed they go after them. I know it isn't my business, but they are my ideal preference, and also I'm not white. Yes, I get that I'm generalizing, but it gets to a certain point where it has some truth to it. Don't ban me, please; I just want at least advice or anything, tbh. Also, sorry for making a weird question; I don't mean to offend anyone or bring controversy into race when it comes to dating.

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[โ€“] gary_host_laptop@lemmy.ml 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I don't live in the US so I don't know how it's over there, but I assume sometimes it's a bit related to racial kinks (in the bdsm community for example), some other times it just happens, etc. Also, I guess that if your country is predominantly white you'll end up mostly with white people.

[โ€“] nagaram@startrek.website 4 points 19 hours ago

Also, I guess that if your country is predominantly white you'll end up mostly with white people.

Despite what the great replacers think, America is still mostly white or at least passably white.

Poor homie is probably both lonely and horny. A terrible combination.