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I watch a lot of TikTok and noticed they go after them. I know it isn't my business, but they are my ideal preference, and also I'm not white. Yes, I get that I'm generalizing, but it gets to a certain point where it has some truth to it. Don't ban me, please; I just want at least advice or anything, tbh. Also, sorry for making a weird question; I don't mean to offend anyone or bring controversy into race when it comes to dating.

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[โ€“] BCsven@lemmy.ca 7 points 19 hours ago

The Tiktok algorithm will show you more of what you show interest in, so your viewing will skew to more of these over time.

I know tons of biracial women and their partners are a perfect sample of white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc etc. People go for who they think is a good partner based on many factors besides looks.

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