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30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say "yeah once a week too" when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his "normal" cadence. I know "whatever works for me" is right, but I'd like to compare to other people my age that aren't my friends.

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[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 63 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Never would have expected a "30 something woman" to be behind that username.

[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 73 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I mean my husband and I have been sharing links to cumshot porn with each other for over a decade. But I get it. Not your average 30 something woman's username πŸ˜†

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 45 points 2 days ago (3 children)
[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 47 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Haha, I guess it is sweet, not gross for us though

[–] errer@lemmy.world 32 points 2 days ago

I think it’s more salty than sweet

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

And also gross in a sweet way.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I watch hundreds a day, I'm not sure I could choose 5

[–] protist@retrofed.com 35 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Very frankly, this statement right here has me thinking about porn or sex addiction. If you don't think it's negatively affecting your life (relationships, employment, self-esteem, sexual fulfillment, etc), then you keep doing you (hehe). If you find you're putting aside other meaningful activities on a regular basis to click the mouse, maybe take a deeper look at that pattern and consider talking with a sex-positive therapist

[–] arcine@jlai.lu 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Forgive me for asking, but would you be able to explain the appeal ? I've always been a little puzzled by this fetish, to be blunt it always seemed like a waste of a creampie x)

[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 3 points 10 hours ago

For me at least, it is all about how it looks when it shoots and how it looks and feels on skin, there is something very visceral about ropes of white liquid flying through the air and landing on skin. For me, a creampie is a waste of a good load.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 40 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Have you seen the type of books 30 something women consume?

We be horny out here.

[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A lot of my friends are very into the whole erotica thing. I am far too visual a person to spend a lot of time doing that, personally.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I never got into the bodice-ripper novels, but there’s definitely some literotica mixed in with visual porn in my preferences.

Mostly visual though.

It’s been nice to see that women who enjoy the written word have an avenue to be as horny as they like without as much judgment lately though haha

[–] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Agreed and sometimes, the right erotic story can be very very moistening. I remember reading some as a late teen and those images still appear sometimes when I fantasise

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Moistening hahaha. I might copy that phrase!

Also I can’t lie, knowing you’re a woman makes your posts that much hotter. Thanks! Haha

And no lie, I've kind of always hoped that women looked at my posts, but never had confirmation, and now I do, so....moistening lol. So thank you.

[–] Today@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

All of my coworkers (age 25-60) read the porn stories.

[–] WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today 4 points 2 days ago

The conversations you've had with your coworkers to even know that make me wanna... come ...work there, too!

[–] arcine@jlai.lu 3 points 1 day ago

30-something is a lot younger than most people realise x)

[–] quick_snail@feddit.nl 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Women's libido typically peak around 30, so usually when you find hypersexual women they're in their 30s.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

It can peak up into women’s mid-40s, not at 30. But you are correct, women in their 30s and 40s tend to be hornier.