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How do you balance privacy and sanity? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by lemmingsareawesome@sh.itjust.works to c/privacy@lemmy.ml

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any advice will help even generic stuff since other people also poballey have the same problem and would like some advice

do you ever feel like you have to choose between being ok or having friends and being private. like you know too much but you dont know what to do? have you been there? how do you start doing something and not stuck?

my friends dont use private things so i have to deal with it or be calld werid ( my freinds and adults think i just want privacy to play games when i shouldnt or watch videos that i should just bc im a yonger guy. if they dont acuse me of anything they just think im crazy or a bum who brings ppl down.

not to mention i feel stuck finding what to do and actalley doing ib. it feels easy and good to give up and ignore stuff like ts. lalala i cant hear you yk. its hrader to learn to bc im "spescial" and stuff. i worry that itll get very hard when i grow up too ((( have you been there?

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[–] twoBrokenThumbs@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

I have a threat model, and I stick with it. It means I'm very comfortable where I'm at.

I also acknowledge other peoples threat model don't match mine. Most people aren't as strict as me, and some of you here are far more strict than I. That's okay, and I'm not going to to crazy trying to control something I can't.

Then I try to apply the same logic to the world. Yes there's a lot going on and being established in laws and practices that we most definitely need to be aware of and raise awareness of. But that being said, I can't control everything so I try to to let things I can't control get to me. The way I see it if they get to me and affect the quality of my life, then they've won even if they don't have my data. So I try to stay sane that way.

Mostly though, I try not to be a weirdo. Yes I'm weird compared to he average. But who wants to be average? That's how I express myself. I'm not going to put down anybody on social media, but I'm also very clear I'm not and have such a better life for it. Guess what, nobody ever disagrees with me. They don't say I'm wrong. They know in right because they feel it. They just don't have the will power to take the steps I do. So again, I never argue or say I'm right. I say I'm right for me, and let then know it in a non judgemental way.

I'm the beacon. If I'm 100% right and am a jerk about it, they'll reject the message because of me. But if I can show them it is possible to be private and control your data and live a fuller life because of it, then maybe it'll inspire them to take the plunge. Educate and inspire.