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That's just not what she said:

Are you even serious in your delineations? I've been deliberately abused by someone whose attitude on the matter boiled down to "your transness is real but it doesn't matter if you're trans: if an afab abuses you and you get mad about being abused, then you don't actually care about women". I guess that ends up being transmisogyny by definition but it's still weaponizing this "mEn R eVuL" bullshit. But you know what, it's not just about trans women being misgendered,

This is not CommunistCuddlefish saying "this is you", not even close. I don't see where you read "i have a hunch you would count some trans women as actually men" into what she said, and I think that's pretty far from assuming good faith in her, which is a rule on this website.

If you mean this instead:

How many closeted trans women does your hostility to men harm without you knowing?

I don't see where you read it into that either. Had to reread the entire reply again.

This also isn't the first time you've ignored the vast majority of what I said, (not to mention sidestepping a lot of what CommunistCuddlefish said) which is unfortunate. This is a really bad response to someone who expressed pretty reasonable grievances in a pretty mild tone, even if you don't agree with her.

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