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You can't. Accept that statement. Acknowledge that you're only in control of your body. You can influence others, but you cannot control them. Align yourself with your beliefs without forcing your beliefs onto others.
I know users would like to interject, probably with something like "these aren't beliefs; they're objectively bad." I would agree with that criticism. Beliefs are sometimes aligned with reality and other times they're not. I believe proprietary-software is evil and I agree with a lot of things Richard Stallman has written.
From the outside I know a lot of people don't understand and I'm fine with that--I'm not in control of others nor do I want to be (that would be a tremendous burden). I do what I want to do, which is a reflection of my beliefs. When your body aligns with your desires (which stem from your beliefs) you'll be most content.
I don't want a Google account. I think creating a Google account is actively causing harm. If someone suggest Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp, et al as a way of communicating I refuse. If they inquire I'll explain my reasoning if I perceive their curiosity to be genuine and offer an alternative solution, but the thing I want to impress upon you here is that I'm doing what I want to do.
People have written and said particulars to me that I know others see my behaviour as a type of "self-restraint" or to phrase it another way: of forgoing convenience in favour of something. They perceive the action of adhering to libre-software as a burden. It's not. It's what I want to do. It's what I like to do. (It's what excites and brings me pleasure.)
I'd probably like it if other people also shared my preferences and I know some do. I also know some don't. I think they should, but I don't want to shoulder that burden. It's an impossible load. I can't force people to do what I think is the correct thing to do. It is impossible. It's also probably wrong--most definitely wrong.
Do what you want to do and accept that others are doing what they want to do. If there's conflict try to resolve it. If it can not be resolved to the satisfaction of both parties part ways amicably.
If you think you can coerce someone with enough persistence--and if you're using this thread to gain motivation to continue--you're in the wrong. Do not do it.
I totaly agree that forcing someone to switch from anything is wrong (I did it then regret it ) and I dont want to controll anyones life but what I am doing now is spreading awarness about the big tech influence on us and the alternate to get rid of big tech and take control of our life. But its sad to see many people are not aware of the influence of the big tech in our life.
I'm bemused by what I'll write next as it's something I would have totally disregarded--that's to say I see a reflection of my thoughts in what you've written. Those thoughts have changed with time. What you want to do is propagandise. I think that's a complete waste of energy. That enthusiasm would be better spent learning or writing libre-software that you want.
I dont want to get influenced by others. What I do is totaly well understood by me and I Felt that I am forcing people to switch but I realised it thats why I posted this on the forum so people can give their thoughts with their perspective and experience.When I read your pervious comment It reflected my worries of forcing people to make a switch.I like foss as it gives me control and I can do whatever I want with it. I use arch btw(joke).
Anyway Thanks for Your Suggession :)