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I've seen this happen a bunch of time now that people just ask a question and it's deleted a day or so later. Do they delete the question themselves, or is that some automatic thing? If they do it themselves, why?

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Thanks for the great answers so far. Very insightful. Please keep them coming, I'm curious to more points of view.

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[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It was with great pain that I recently deleted something like 50 to 100 of my own posts. They were all political. Lots of great discussions. But we live in a time where having the wrong kind of history on social media could make you a target either now or in the future. I'm sure a lot of that is still floating around one way or another but if I can reduce any spotlights on my ass it's something I felt I had to do.

Since then I haven't deleted anything. I try to keep my posts non-political. In my real life I am now focusing on bettering myself. I've given up on trying to change the country or anything like that. It can all they to ash. I've ran out of fucks to give.

But hey, I'm contributing on !loweffortmemes@crazypeople.online again, so there's that.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 5 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

You dont use your real name on Lemmy so I dont see why your history matters here. I could understand it on linkedin, which is why its a super cringe platform also, but here? I dont see a problem.

I like Lemmy because it can be genuine and real, unless posted on a instance that moderates away opinions the moderators dont agree with.

You can go back and find opinions in my history you wont agree with. But thats because i dont try to look a certain way, and I dont change my opinions to look good to others.

I think everyone should do the same. Be who you are. Reflect on feedback, maybe you are wrong, but if you dont think so, dont change yourself.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

What I still post here is still genuine. I'm just biting my tongue about certain topics. No different than one would do while at work.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

You shouldnt. Post and be downvoted. As long as you are not intentionally trolling anyone, it shows strength of character to stand up for what you believe.

Its very different from work where you are not free to do what you want, because your entire paycheck is based on going along with the charade. You dont have to do that outside of work. :)

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Downvotes are not what I'm afraid of. I shouldn't have to explain this to someone with your username.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Ok I understand. There is no way someone connect what you write here with your real identity. Only your instance even sees your ip. And your internet provider I guess.