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I really like watch porn videos of women saying very humilating and degrading things about me because I love feeling like I'm a loser, Inadequate and worthless.

But I don't want tell my future wife or girlfriend that I'm into this because it's so embarrassing. How do I get rid of this kink?

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[–] Scranulum@feddit.nu 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Why would you assume it to be appropriate to attempt humiliating someone, even as a joke, just because you happened to discover they were into consensual practice of the kink? Super fucking weird bro. Would you just tie a random person up without asking them if they mentioned they were into rope bondage?

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Jesus Christ, get over yourself.

you want an answer to your question then ask yourself this, did I honestly assume my feeble attempt to chastise a complete degenerate on the internet would result in my expected outcome?

[–] Scranulum@feddit.nu 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

By calling it "[your] expected outcome" I believe you've answered your own question there.

Consent is important, dickweed. Cry about it.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago

I'm not the one whinging on about it like a bitch, am I?