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I'd fit in this category. I'm a company executive and I have a voice that carries. I tend to be the quiet person in the room until I need to speak up. When I do, a mix of my position, and the whole quiet-person-speaking-forcefully thing tends to make others listen.
In general, I don't mind being in front of a room, giving a presentation to 2000 strangers. The faces blur together and it's like being alone. Because I'm willing to do this, many people think I'm an extrovert. On the other hand, I don't like being in a room with 4 strangers. I can do it, and I'll interact with everyone, but it is freaking exhausting.
Anytime I'm with people for a decent length of time, I need time alone to recover. A large part of my job is managing or dealing with people for one thing or another. It's become a habit that when I get home from work, my family leaves me alone for an hour so that I can decompress and recharge.