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Ik the bar and club scene have women but it's not likely to go anywhere plus one or both parties are drunk. Just curious to see what people think on the topic. The beach is a spot I'm trying to push myself to talk to women at

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[โ€“] Nemo@slrpnk.net 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

dances, church, political protests, arts festivals, running clubs, amateur theatre, gallery openings

[โ€“] Canconda@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Events in general because you all have at least 1 thing in common you can talk about (the event).

Also you need a reason to be there other than meeting women or tldr you'll give off ick vibes. It's like the desperate salesman who drives away customers.

Someone who's genuinely there to have fun will be much more attractive in general.