See, I don’t understand this. If the person I’m with isn’t capable of speaking over me and enforcing their will and vision, what’s the point? An endless stream of prostitutes and an occasional cleaning service would be far cheaper and, frankly, less shameful than breaking another human being’s spirit.

[–] zakobjoa@lemmy.world 11 points 13 hours ago

I think the spirit breaking is integral to the whole concept.

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 14 points 16 hours ago

they want the same services as a maid+sex worker+escort provide BUT they don’t want to pay for it like a service they want someone to do it out of respect and adoration BUT they don’t want to build or earn respect or adoration by doing anything respectable or admirable