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I assumed that this was standard behaviour/etiquette, though I'm realizing maybe it's actually not so common, and I want to know if I'm the weird one

If you don't- why not?


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[–] valtia@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

Of course I do. Mostly because I avoid communities that I know will be toxic as hell and full of chuds

This seems to be the opposite experience for many who have expressed that they don't check—they feel entitled to be present and post in every space regardless of any context