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[โ€“] cobysev@lemmy.world 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I retired young. I had joined the US military at 18 years old and signed up under an IT profession. It started as a jack-of-all-trades IT job (if it touched a computer network, we managed it), but as the years went on, they started specializing us. Because if you're a jack-of-all-trades, you're a master of none, and the military wanted subject-matter experts. My final job was basically a server administrator, although they never fully adopted to the specialization change, so I was still doing odd IT work outside of my job requirements until I left the service.

After 20 years of service, I qualified for retirement from the military, which I jumped on. I was grandfathered into the old pension program, which means I get about half my base pay every month for the rest of my life. The military also kind of broke me (physically and mentally), so I'm 100% disabled according to the VA, even though I don't look like it. That comes with it's own free lifetime medical and dental plan, along with pay that's twice as much as my pension every month.

So... I decided to take an early retirement at 38 years old and actually spend some time enjoying my life for once. The military was constant stress and focus on the mission. I didn't get to spend much time focused on my own life because I was constantly being moved around the world at the whim of the govt. So now I'm settled down and just enjoying not having any responsibilities except what I choose to focus on.

I did try to find other IT work when I left the service. But I couldn't get a call back from anyone, even through the military's transitional internship program. Eventually, Google reached out to me, but their "internship" was to give me free access to their online training programs on Coursera for 6 months. They never called me back after that.

Eventually, I realized I didn't need to work to survive. I wasn't filthy rich by any stretch of the imagination, but my passive income was enough to live comfortably on without working another day of my life. All my basic needs were being met and I had enough extra each month to squirrel away a little bit for a rainy day. So I chose that path. It's been just over 3 years since I retired and I've never been happier.

If you get bored, look into VR&E, and don't forget about your GI Bill if you still have it. Both will get you get 'free' school and give you another monthly stipend while you're learning.

Learn a completely new skill and get paid while you're doing it.