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Adding to this. Even if you're not in the pictures, take them. Psychologically, pictures can 'jog' our memory and bring forth details, emotions, etc. that we experienced during and around that time.
I found this to be a good read on the topic. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/longing-for-nostalgia/202401/looking-at-your-photos-can-be-uplifting-enlightening-or?msockid=05ea5f1c09a3646b2d67494a085b656b
MAKE SURE YOU BACK THEM UP! I can't stress this enough. Those memories can be lost forever if you're not careful and set up and use an image backup system of some kind. And please, please, please. Don't just save them to one device.
Long story short: A good friend of mine and his parents would periodically take photos of us while we were over there gaming, hanging out, and celebrating things over the years. Unbeknownst to us, our friend was only saving them to his laptop. Nowhere else. Not even to an email account. So when one of his 'newly' made "friends" borrowed his laptop to make some music on it. It went missing for over two months and my friend tried many times to get a hold of this dude to get it back. Finally, my friend got hold of him and just begged for him to just let him grab all of the images and irreplaceable things from it. My friend didn't care about the monetary loss. He just wanted those photos back. The dude told him that he had pawned it a few weeks ago. It was gone. Nothing to do and nothing to save. Years of us having game nights, hanging out, and celebrating a few birthdays... gone forever. So... BACK, UP, YOUR, PHOTOS!