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Do any of y'all play video games like a normal person? (reddthat.com)

submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by pleasestopasking@reddthat.com to c/adhd@lemmy.world

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My ~~ND~~ NT husband will just like, play a game every once in a while when he feels like it. He'll just pick it up every so often, maybe play a few days in a week, and then leave it be again for a while to come back to later.

Meanwhile I will get into a game and spend every waking hour playing it. My sleep, diet, work, hygiene, all suffer to varying degrees. I give myself wrist pain and thumb calluses. I will not rest until I 100% it. And if I can't, I'll stop and most likely never pick it up again.

Anyway, anyone else playing Silksong?

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[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

My NT husband switches between games. In one sitting. I look up from drawing evey once in a while and, wtf since when is Mario in Ass Creed? Not that he doesn't like the game, he always comes back to it after a while and finishes most of what he plays. He just gets bored after a bit and loads up another one. And they tell me I have attention issues.

When I start a game, I either drop it after one sitting or I am 150% in (and sometimes I get so deep into a game that I stop playing shortly before the end because I don't want it to end - fuck this brain (I need to finish Cyberpunk 2077)). I actively avoid certain games because I know they'll eat me. Instead I'll sit and draw for 37 hours a day without needing sustenance or the loo, which is much more healthy and socially accepted and even encouraged by my therapist.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

and sometimes I get so deep into a game that I stop playing shortly before the end because I don't want it to end

I stop at about ~80% completion on my favorite games for this reason EXACTLY. Like my logic brain says “finish” and my ADHD/attachment refuses outright.

[–] AbsolutelyClawless@piefed.social 3 points 3 days ago

This is why I avoid MMOs. Several years ago I picked up one again and ended up accumulating over 1000 hours over several months. And I didn't even play the main story for the most part. I remember clan members' reaction: "wtf, how have you not finished the story after so many hours played". The only reason I stopped literally over night was because I had something traumatic happen to me the following morning that fucked my life up for good. It quite literally required a life-changing event to shake me out of it.