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Do any of y'all play video games like a normal person? (reddthat.com)

submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by pleasestopasking@reddthat.com to c/adhd@lemmy.world

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My ~~ND~~ NT husband will just like, play a game every once in a while when he feels like it. He'll just pick it up every so often, maybe play a few days in a week, and then leave it be again for a while to come back to later.

Meanwhile I will get into a game and spend every waking hour playing it. My sleep, diet, work, hygiene, all suffer to varying degrees. I give myself wrist pain and thumb calluses. I will not rest until I 100% it. And if I can't, I'll stop and most likely never pick it up again.

Anyway, anyone else playing Silksong?

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[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I don't personally care about achievement hunting or 100%-ing games, but otherwise I am exactly the same yes. If a game piques my interest it becomes a hyperfixation that consumes every waking hour, and I will spend as much free time as possible either playing it, watching others play it, watching videos about it, or reading things about it.

I also don't really understand people who are juggling multiple games at a time. "Oh, today I'll play some X, tomorrow I'll play some Y and over the weekend I'll enjoy some Z!". Sounds completely foreign and bizarre to me. I have my current game, and if I'm playing a game I'll be playing my current game. Who has the bandwidth to keep track of multiple games at once?

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

I usually only play games becazse they are either fun or interesting.
I also don't understand the playing of multiple games instead of focusing on one but playing it less frequently to avoid fatique.
What I do understand is playing a "brain-off" game and switching to a game that requires attention (e.g. due to a good story)