this post was submitted on 25 Sep 2025
108 points (95.0% liked)

No Stupid Questions

43724 readers
781 users here now

No such thing. Ask away!

!nostupidquestions is a community dedicated to being helpful and answering each others' questions on various topics.

The rules for posting and commenting, besides the rules defined here for lemmy.world, are as follows:

Rules (interactive)


Rule 1- All posts must be legitimate questions. All post titles must include a question.

All posts must be legitimate questions, and all post titles must include a question. Questions that are joke or trolling questions, memes, song lyrics as title, etc. are not allowed here. See Rule 6 for all exceptions.



Rule 2- Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material.

Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material. You will be warned first, banned second.



Rule 3- Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here.

Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here. Breaking this rule will not get you or your post removed, but it will put you at risk, and possibly in danger.



Rule 4- No self promotion or upvote-farming of any kind.

That's it.



Rule 5- No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda.

Questions which, instead of being of an innocuous nature, are specifically intended (based on reports and in the opinion of our crack moderation team) to bait users into ideological wars on charged political topics will be removed and the authors warned - or banned - depending on severity.



Rule 6- Regarding META posts and joke questions.

Provided it is about the community itself, you may post non-question posts using the [META] tag on your post title.

On fridays, you are allowed to post meme and troll questions, on the condition that it's in text format only, and conforms with our other rules. These posts MUST include the [NSQ Friday] tag in their title.

If you post a serious question on friday and are looking only for legitimate answers, then please include the [Serious] tag on your post. Irrelevant replies will then be removed by moderators.



Rule 7- You can't intentionally annoy, mock, or harass other members.

If you intentionally annoy, mock, harass, or discriminate against any individual member, you will be removed.

Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a movement that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of a group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you will be banned on sight.



Rule 8- All comments should try to stay relevant to their parent content.



Rule 9- Reposts from other platforms are not allowed.

Let everyone have their own content.



Rule 10- Majority of bots aren't allowed to participate here. This includes using AI responses and summaries.



Credits

Our breathtaking icon was bestowed upon us by @Cevilia!

The greatest banner of all time: by @TheOneWithTheHair!

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

For example, an English person called Bob might introduce themselves as "Bob", whereas an American person called Bob might introduce themselves as "Bahb". (Sorry, don't know the phonetic alphabet but hopefully you get my gist)

Should you pronounce those two people's names the same, with your own natural accent, or should you copy how the person says their own name?

Edit: I specifically picked a generic English name with different pronunciation across different accents. I know my wording wasn't great, sorry! Hopefully the edit is a bit clearer.

Context and other languagesWhen pronouncing a name from a different language, I firmly believe you should copy the pronunciation of the owner of that name, and not Anglicise the name unless asked to. I say this as a speaker of a language that English people regularly mispronounce and even insist to me that they know the correct pronunciation of my language.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

For the food thing, as a Midwesterner I feel like I come across as making fun of the other person when I try too hard. Like the people who say "Bærthélōnã" after they get back from two weeks in northwest Spain; it's not going to fit into my normal speech pattern, it'll just sound like I'm trying to draw attention to it if I say "bûɽɽɽito."

But for names? I dunno man, that's your name. I don't want you to feel left out if I'm pronouncing "Evelyn" and "Leo" and "Elliott" perfectly, but then I stumble over "Rekha" or "Urooj" or "Joãozinho." I'll try to at least get as close as I can to the way I hear you pronounce it.

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I grew up here, being white doesn't mean it's not my culture. I don't know jack about Mexican cuisine, but Tex Mex is my culture.

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Yeah, if I was from the Southwest I'm sure it would be different. But as a Midwestern kid, our "culture" is almost entirely used to ferment milk for cheese.

[–] eronth@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I honestly feel like the "you're trying to hard to pronounce the country/city/food name" vibe is silly anyways. If they pronounce it "Bærthélōnã" in Barcelona, then why shouldn't I try to pronounce it that way? Especially these days in our hyper-connected world, I don't really have an excuse of "well I never knew they said it that way".

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I don't mean people who earnestly pronounce it the way they do in Barcelona, I mean the people who make a huge deal out of saying it as intensely as possible, trying to call attention to how well-traveled they are by making it sound super alien.