Ask Lemmy

Only like once did I ever do a full 180.

I was originally Pro-Choice, but I had an existential crisis at around 18 and my stance became Pro-Life but with exceptions to [SA] or if it endangers the woman's life.

Then I started looking up the arguments on both sides. It was a r/"ChangeMyView" post, the OP (someone else posted, not me) was Pro-Life and believes in the exception if the fetus was result of rape. Then someone in the comments pointed out its contradictory to belief a fetus as equal to a person, but also make exceptions "when it's convienient".

So I thought about it and I slowly became pro-choice again.

I mean, I still believe abortions to be a sad thing, ending a potential life is a tregedy, but I also recognize that giving the government the power to regulate reproductive rights is a much greater evil than a voluntary abortion that a woman choses.

I see fetuses as a sort of in a stage between "not alive" and "alive", a potential person, not a fully developed person, not yet. I think the life of a fully developed human being should take priority over a potential human being, one that we can't even be sure if he/she will die before reaching school-age (aka: infant mortality). I mean, the fetus's existence is kinda tied to the pregnant woman, it can't thrive outside of the womb for like a large portion of a year (I mean... unless we somehow figure out how to safely take out the fetus and put it in an artificial womb). I'm pro-choice, not because I like abortions, but because its the lesser evil compared to the alternative.

As for my other beliefs, no they never really changed. The specifics and nuances is influenced by the world around me, including a tiny bit of influence from the internet, but mostly its formed by internal logics of my brain. For example: I was pro-gun when I was a teen, still am pro-gun now. And not as in the right wing perspective either, I lean left, I did not grow up in a gun household, so its not because of that either. I just don't trust the government and I wish people left-of-center started to arm themselves. I really hate the Democrat's anti-gun rhetoric (I'd still vote for them because its harm reduction for the social policies). And this belief was later renforced because I had a bad interaction with a cop, and was unjustifiably arrested. We should just have people form well-regulated militias to enforce the laws, I rather trust random people (with training, of course) than a cop. I live in a deep blue liberal city and I know these people would probably be more reasonable than an average cop, but then again, unfortunately, these liberals are too afraid of guns... 🤦‍♂️

C'mon, can't we just form a militia? I hate these cops.