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It's really just exclusive-validity identity politics, which has roots DEEP in many mammal-species..
Here https://www.amazon.com/Immunity-Change-Potential-Organization-Leadership-ebook/dp/B004OEILH2/ you can read the beginning of a book which explains how our unconscious-minds fight off any growing-up, fighting-off change..
In it, it describes 3 unconscious-mind-development-stages, which I call Kegan3, Kegan4, & Kegan5, simply because there are SO many different systems-of-stages-or-dimensions to keep mindful-of, like Kahneman+Tversky-1 & Kahneman+Tversky-2 ( imprint->reaction system, lower-forebrain, the ideology/prejudice/trained-expertise system, vs considered-reasoning, upper-forebrain, much exercised in programming )
.. that it's idiocy to NOT index all such things, now..
Here, if you scroll down a little, you can see a table describing the different unconscious-mind-development stages, ALL of them, that their-kind know about ( the stage after Kegan5 is the self-conquering-stage, which they never saw or identified, because our world's process sabotages/prevents it )
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Kegan#The_Evolving_Self
Now think about herdbeasts, which don't have Kegan5's systems-of-systems stage..
They do have Kegan3, which is the upper-limit that cows are allowed to, by bulls, & they have Kegan4, which the bulls level-off in..
Kegan3 is wanting to be liked, it is associating-with validity ( hence the power of "influencers", among the younger humans in any time ), it is, fundamentally, ( & I'm not certain that Robert Kegan understood this ) the absorbing experience stage of one's life, living more in feelings & social-"reality"..
Kegan4, on the other hand, is what I call "BullingBOSS mode", where validity is zero-sum game: it is exclusive and that is exactly the way bulls work: it is limbic-brain, in basis, so it should hold throughout most mammals!
Now, IF one's identity & validity are rooted in zero-sum game, then anyone else having any validity reduces one's own validity!!
Narcissism also works this way, you'll notice, so now there are 2 fundamental-causes for such instinct, in-play..
Here you will find a book which explains the 5 LEVELS of culture-process, from competitive-nihilism's culture-level-1, to LIVING IS SELF-INHERENTLY AWESOME!!'s culture-level-5: https://www.amazon.com/Tribal-Leadership-Revised-Leveraging-Organization-ebook/dp/B006IDG1K6/
Here is the dumbed-down TED Talk about their years-of-research: https://www.ted.com/talks/david_logan_tribal_leadership
Culture-level-2 produces conspiricism! Subject-to-narcissism is therefore strategically-cancerous!
Now, what happens if your culture glorifies exclusive-validity identity, and, in so doing, produces a glass-ceiling on one's culture, which prevents culture-level-4 & culture-level-5..??
One ends-up devaluing, dehumanizing, others, & wanting them butchered, in order to validate one's culturally-grown prejudice!
IOW, it isn't just-the-Republicans, the nazis did it, I'm certain that much of the time the Romans did it, different Chinese cultures have done it, same with the Japanese, etc..
It expresses different ways, depending on the identity-anchors of the "valid", vs the "nonvalid"..
As Logan, King, & Fischer-Wright noticed, you can walk into ANY hospital in North America, with the exception of 1, which outgrew that cultural-glass-ceiling, & if you walk-in looking both professional & self-confident, the junior staff won't meet your eyes, because the narcissism-culture of the doctors has destroyed their human-validity.
THAT is evidence-based knowing!!
The vignette that Logan gives, in that TED Talk is on that specific section of their book, but doesn't give enough of it.
Both my parents were medical-professionals, Dad was a medical researcher and doctor, and that researcher bit was significant .. because the narcissism-culture of White medicine definitely saturated them both, but his science-culture overrode that, intellectually .. for which there ought be no limit to my gratitude, for that gift..
( doesn't mean I didn't go no-contact with both of them, though: the narcissism, the exclusive validity that doesn't include me is toxicity/cancer, in any "family" or "community" )
( btw, the personal-stuff is only so that you understand the experience-induced-understanding: it isn't just theory, it's earned understanding. There's no reason to care about it, otherwise: it's just context/perspective, so leave me out from any "care" or "concern". )
Now when you've made your culture narcissistic, AND you're glorifying Kegan4's BullingBOSS mode..
..AND you add-in non-accountable authority's rule .. then sociopathy's the result, isn't it?
It is produced by this configuration of culture-forces!!
( definitions: psychopathy means incapable of empathy, because one's mirror-neuron-system, or something, just doesn't function, so other-lives are just meat-marionettes..
sociopathy isn't brain-intrinsic, it is psychologically-produced analogue-of-psychopathy, through systematic imprinting ( that Kahneman1 imprint->reaction system ), until the programming produced it. )
So, anybody here who wants to read just how evil "normal" can be, please read some of Angela Davis's "Women, Race, & Class" book .. https://www.amazon.com/Women-Race-Class-Angela-Davis-ebook/dp/B0054KKRKY
& you will begin understanding just how spectacularly wrong our assumptions are, re human-culture-produced-outright-evil, from the utterly stomach-turning historical-facts she's putting into that..
& then you will begin understanding that when prejudice is the ruling-religion, then the nazis were normal, in evil.
So, really it all comes down to specific identity-forces:
Salut, Namaste, & Kaizen, eh?
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