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Dunno how else to call it. Got me a job. It's not a bad job. I like the work I do, I tolerate the people there, the hours are not long, it's unionised so they can't harrass me when I'm off the clock, it pays the bills I got.

.... But god damn. Once I'm home I lack the drive to do literally anything.

I've stopped going to gym, I often eat junk cuz I just don't wanna cook, even my hobbies are being left to gather dust. After working my 9-to-5 I just wanna lie down and rot until it's work time again.

So the question is, how do the better-adjusted adults handle this?

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[–] zerozaku@lemmy.world 39 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Everyone sharing their own coping mechanisms in the comments makes me want to question the whole thing itself. Why are we living like this? And why do we need to force ourselves to go through all this? What is the end goal? Are there no better ways to live? Why, why, whyyyy...

[–] cley_faye@lemmy.world 6 points 23 hours ago

There are better way to live. But we're used to a certain level of comfort, that includes not doing the many, many upkeep tasks to grow food, maintain home, clothing, etc. so we trade some time for currencies, that is then traded with other people, and the leftover currency allows us to indulge in fun things that are also complex and high maintenance, so they're done by other.

Well, that's the theory. In practice, working a full-time job barely, if even, covers the minimum expanses required to live, which keep going up anyway, so you have to work more to barely go by, which thankfully will let you forget that you won't make anywhere near enough money for leisure time. Good thing you won't have any, eh?

sigh knowing we have the technologies, right now, to cover all basic needs, including food and housing, for cheap, but still do with the charade of inflation so that a few select individual can extract all our time from us is really sad.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Why are we living like this?

No one is going up to people and offering them a better alternative. Literally that's it.

On a less flippant note, The people who represent us, care more about the orhanizatins who give them money than they do about the needs and wants us the people they are representing.

If you aren't producing value to pursue who can offer you a better life, then there is no reason for then to offer it to you.

Now add in tradition, culture, religion and a host of other competing morals and opinions, and we have the world of today

[–] hayvan@feddit.nl 16 points 1 day ago

Capitalism. The answer is capitalism.

[–] False@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

We live in a society

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Food is literally free, it just grows out of the ground. If we weren't such dickheads we could just take it in turns picking potatoes or whatever and spend the rest of our time fucking about doing whatever we want. Probably

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 3 points 20 hours ago

Food is free, but farming takes effort and resources (such as fertilizers and tools) and acquiring the resources also takes effort and resources and...

At the end of the day, we all just want to get more out of our time than what we'd get by doing everything ourselves. And the capitalists of course get the most out of their time, if they even actually spend their time doing anything productive. Many don't