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Not really. With medications and nerves I've run the gamut from premature to fully unable to finish, and this is not something I usually have trouble with. Maybe its because I am in a BDSM couple and often my focus is already split between the physical sensations and the work needed to make a scene good for my partner. Sex is engaging enough I generally get hyperfocused rather than having intrusive chore thoughts.
This may partially explain why I (and many other NDs I know) have gravitated towards BDSM.
Need more side quests. "Have orgasm with partner(s)" not interesting enough. "Hi I would like to try sex but extra, please."