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[–] remon@ani.social 6 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Long hair.

Shorter is better.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Do-ups and buns and things are nice, too. The history of using them for modesty tells me that's a minority opinion.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 2 points 18 hours ago

No I get it. Hair that's put up in a messy way, so that there's a few stray strands that fall along the face and neck... Strangely hot.

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[–] Captain_Stupid@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago
[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 1 points 17 hours ago

I don't think that slimthick looks good

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 4 points 1 day ago

I've never dated a woman wearing false nails. The same with botox.

Also, I'm not seduced by make-up. Contrary to false nails, I don't mind it, I find it useless. I like to look at actual people, and I may even feel attracted to some of them. I'm not interested as much in looking at the fantasized image people may have of themselves.

I'm also not obsessed with a person looking young, meaning I don't mind grey hair and wrinkles. Why would I? I do wear my own wrinkles with no worries, alongside those (short) grey hair I would have on top of my own big head if I was not completely bald.

Not considering the body itself, there is a 'sexy' thing that always left me wondering what was so hot about them: high heels.

I mean, I get it they help shape the legs. But they're also quite obviously less stable to walk with and they seem rather uncomfortable to wear for hours. I would tend to favor the company of a woman able to go out for a long walk with me, be it in nature somewhere or to visit some art gallery or museum in town.

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[–] bluGill@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago

5 year olds dressed up to look like a 19 year old going out for a one night stand. Kids are cute, and I was never into one night stands, but when the girl is 19 I can appreciate looking at a lot of skin.

[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Flat stomach

It looks gross

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 5 points 23 hours ago

Agreed. Should be bumpy like a washboard.

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