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[–] manxu@piefed.social 82 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think the standard US phrasing is, "This call may be recorded for quality assurance purposes." It is a warning to you, but also a concession from them that you may record, since it doesn't say they may record the call, only that it may be recorded.

See, sometimes you really need the passive voice!

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm not sure that is legally reliable... The word "may" has two meanings, one expressing permission, the other expressing possibility. Clearly they are related, but not the same, so maybe the mean "it might be recorded" rather than saying "permission exists to record it"

[–] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago (11 children)

It doesn't matter which meaning it is. Either way, if a call might be recorded and you stay on the line, you agree to the possibility of it being recorded. Like wise, them saying the call might be recorded could easily mean it might be recorded by you. There is not an instance where they can consent to only them recording, and not consent to you recording, without a much more legally binding contract.

I always understood it to mean "this call might be recorded" but they are definitely recording. It's like a cheeky "who knows, maybe we'll record maybe we won't" when they are always recording...

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[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 weeks ago

By continuing to stay in this call you are obviously agreeing to be recorded unless you have the option to deny the request.

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago

The point is that it's no longer expected to be private. Therefore wiretap laws don't apply. (But check with a state lawyer.)

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 68 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

They are, and you should.

Most States are single party consent for recording. That means if anyone on the call wants to record the call, they can. So you don't even need to ask.

A few States require everyone to consent to the recording. If everyone does, anyone can.

[–] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 35 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

The following states are all-party consent:

  • California
  • Connecticut
  • Delaware
  • Florida
  • Illinois
  • Maryland
  • Massachusetts
  • Montana
  • New Hampshire
  • Oregon
  • Pennsylvania
  • Washington

IANAL, but if you are in a one party consent state, and they are in a two party (aka all party) consent state, typically all parties must consent.

If you call a customer support line and it says "This call may be recorded for quality assurance purposes", then staying on the line means you consent. I absolutely record all customer service calls, because if it goes absolutely terrible, I love knowing I can just play back what they said. I haven't had to resort to that yet, but it's always good to have it as a backup.

For reference, I just use BCR on my rooted android

[–] CanIFishHere@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 weeks ago

Call recording is built in on my galaxy S25

[–] ITGuyLevi@programming.dev 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Well, if someone calls me from one of those states, they'll need to announce it otherwise they will be recorded. My phone records every call (single party state).

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

It only matters if you plan on taking that person to court in their state.

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

They is why there is the concepts of one party and two party call recording consent.

If you are in a one party area, you absolutely can record the call without telling them.

Not entirely sure how it works with 2 party areas if both parties want to record the call. I am not fro a two party area.

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Also it’s often misunderstood to refer to the act of recording itself, when it only relates to permissibility as evidence in court. People can record phone calls wherever. It’s only the usefulness of the recording in court that changes.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 5 points 2 weeks ago

It also comes into play for civil damages if the recording is published.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Interesting question: what if the call crosses from a two party area to a one party area?

If the call goes from Georgia (one party) to Florida (two party) can the Georgia caller legally record without the Floridian's consent?

Can the Georgia caller then use the legally obtained recording in a Florida courtroom? In a Georgia courtroom? On national news? If both parties are Florida residents but one party drives into Georgia for the duration of the call?

[–] grue@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Interesting question: what if the call crosses from a two party area to a one party area?

The party in the two-party area needs to get consent from the other, but the party in the one-party area doesn't.

Anybody who tells you the party in the one-party-consent area needs to get consent because the call crosses jurisdictional boundaries is a totalitarian piece of shit who believes in extraterritorial jurisdiction.

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[–] grue@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

They do consent. "This call may be recorded" is giving you permission.

[–] architect@thelemmy.club 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If you tell them you're recording they’ll hang up though.

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago

So don't tell them then. Their notice to you covers both of you.

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Thats correct. I am in charge of this for our company and basically an option off the main menu that is recorded will give this message before fully transferring to that queue. This allows the reps to not have to say it every single time they talk to someone, which could also mean they forget to. For the extensuons the message plays before they are allowed to speak once someone picks up.

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

That's a really good point that I hadn't considered.

[–] Red_October@piefed.world 17 points 2 weeks ago

I'm pretty sure they are. Them telling you that they're recording the call is both them "getting your consent" to the recording (Because you continued the call) and them consenting to the recording. They may not think you will have a copy of the recording, but they basically started by saying the call can be recorded.

[–] krigo666@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

In Portugal the law states any party can record as long it gets consent from the other parties, and those consents can be withdrawn at any time.

[–] Evil_Incarnate@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In finland, you can record any conversation that you are a part of, without asking.

[–] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Can you point me to the law that allows that?

[–] Evil_Incarnate@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] 0xKesh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Am I reading the correct bit?

Chapter 24, section 5 - Eavesdropping

A person who unlawfully listens to or records with a technical device

  1. a discussion, talk or other sounds of private life, where these are not intended for his or her knowledge and which occur or arise in a place covered by the right to domestic privacy, or
  2. secretly, elsewhere than in a place covered by the right to domestic privacy, talk that is not intended for his or her knowledge or for the knowledge of any other third parties, where the circumstances are such that the speaker has no reason to believe that a third party is listening shall be sentenced for eavesdropping to a fine or to imprisonment for at most one year.

An attempt is punishable.

This to me seems like it reads against what you are saying no?

EDIT: And actually, isn't this more about an unknown third party anyway?

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[–] LurkingLuddite@piefed.social 4 points 2 weeks ago

two party consent vs one party consent. The more I learn about it, the more I understand why my old boss hated my clarifying questions on business strategy...

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

consents can be withdrawn at any time.

Hmm, ex post facto?

[–] BigPotato@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

More to say, if I agree to the recording at the beginning and then a few minutes into the call change my mind, that's allowed.

I can't really wait until an hour after the call, realize I shouldn't have over shared and ring you to say that you can't record our call.

[–] colourlessidea@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Can they record you without consent where you live?

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 2 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Single party consent means that you can record yourself, and you can record anything you hear. Your participation in the conversation is your consent.

The only way to revoke your consent is to withdraw from the conversation.

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[–] Stern@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They inform you so that you can retract consent (by hanging up)

[–] call_me_xale@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

The problem is that there's often no alternative means to access the service(s) you need. There should be a way to revoke consent without disconnecting.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

When you are connected with a person, you can often ask for a non-recorded line, though they don’t advertise it. It’s not ideal that your call is recorded until that point, and it’s obviously an extra hassle, which is still a problem.

[–] Nollij@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Having worked in a call center, I would be surprised if such a thing is even possible.

That said, the call recording software was so bad, less than half of calls were actually recorded anyway. But they tried on all of them.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I only know about it because I worked in a call center and it was literally impossible at my phone, but we just transferred it to a manager’s direct line.

It may well depend on what type of call center it is though, because we dealt with privileged information in many calls. I’ve done it as a caller since, but only with similar places, so I could a sales center or cable company being different

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[–] Stern@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

That turns any legal issue into "he said she said", which corpo deffo doesn't want.

[–] Jajcus@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

In Europe smartphones have all call recording features disabled. "Because of regulations". So corporations and scammers can record us whenever they wish, bu lt we cannot, even though it would provide us some defence. I thing the 'regulations' here protect the wrong side. Which is surprising, as EU is usually quite decent in consumer protection.

[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 weeks ago

No. You're wrong.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

My google Pixel on Android 17 promoted me a few times to record it.

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[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

smartphones have all call recording features disabled.

By default - I believe if you are determined enough, you can record the call, if nothing else with a mechanical device attached to the earpiece of your phone.

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[–] rjek@feddit.uk 5 points 2 weeks ago

At least in the UK, they do.

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Americentrism.

That's just the standard in most of EU, two party consent.

Though it's a weird thing where in some of EU, legally, not hanging up when it states "calls may be recorded" counts as consent

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[–] neuracnu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

I don't record my calls, but I take remarkable meticulous notes that I'm happy to call upon should the need arise. If there's a dispute, the company can produce recorded evidence to demonstrate that the notes I've taken were incorrect.

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 3 points 2 weeks ago

Varies by jurisdiction but in Australia on most calls you can just tell the operator that you do not wish for the call to be recorded.

You could ask them if you may record the call and I guess they would have to follow their own policy on that.

Why would you want a recording though ?

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Depends on state law, but typically they have. There's no wiretap violation unless privacy iexpecteded, you see.

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