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Saw the top post today about Nitter getting a cease and desist. Not surprised, but it hit a nerve.

Last winter I finally moved my family off Google Photos. Not for ideology, just tired of paying for One that gets more expensive every year.

Old Dell Optiplex 7040 in the closet, Immich for photos, Nextcloud for docs, Matrix for family chat. It was messy. I forgot to set up proper backups and almost lost a month of kid photos in January. My wife still brings it up.

Before that I thought privacy was about picking a better provider. Nitter was part of that logic too - use a private frontend for a bad platform. But frontends die. Nitter, Invidious, all of them. One letter and it's gone.

Self-hosting didn't solve everything, but at least my photos don't depend on someone else's frontend staying alive. The problem now is family. My server is in my closet, but my sister is still on Messenger, my mom on iCloud. My setup doesn't protect them.

Curious how you handle this part. When the frontend you rely on disappears, do you try to move family to Signal/Matrix or just accept you can only protect your own node?

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[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Depends on the goal. No one is going to look at 99.9% of my photos, ever. Of the remainder, 99% of them they will look at exactly once. No one would really miss them if they were gone, not even me. Get a few good quality prints of important stuff for moments like "that's your great grandfather Andrew". No one cares about the coffee I had last Tuesday.

Self hosting just replaces one set of failure points with another. If I get hit by a bus, my stuff will keep running for a while, but no one will have the skill or motivation to keep it running, or export the data to something else.

[–] eurodyne@piefed.world 1 points 24 minutes ago

This makes me sad

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 hours ago

Sometimes, with kids, I need what just works. Sometimes that’s self hosting and sometimes it’s not. All depends on how much time there is in maintenance and upgrades.