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Or something that goes a bit deeper onto each instance and explains them better? I have a mutual on mastodon that I recommended Lemmy to, and tried to link join-lemmy.org/instances, but it doesn't really do much to warn about hexbear/lemmygrad/.ml/etc. Those instances are defederated from a LOT of lemmy and i don't want my moot to sign up there and not even know that they're not really experiencing the Lemmy experience that I'm recommending.

I don't wanna start a war in the comments about instance dramas, I just wanna find a better resource to recommend Lemmy as a 'reddit alternative' -w-

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[–] mhzawadi@lemmy.horwood.cloud 2 points 3 hours ago

Not seen this link https://lemmyverse.net/communities

That lists every Lemmy instance

[–] scallisto@retrofed.com 1 points 6 hours ago

I think it would be neat if somebody made a community-run list of stable Lemmy/Piefed communities and categorised them by their rules, where the servers are, etc.

As for now, I think it is best to recommend a few instances that you know are reliable. Push them towards more local instances. If they live in Canada, lemmy.ca, piefed.ca, lemmy.blahaj.zone, and piefed.blahaj.zone are good options, I know feddit.org (Lemmy) and feddit.online (Piefed) are both hosted in Germany. sopuli.xyz is hosted in Finland, piefed.nz in Kiwi land, etc.

Or perhaps instances that relate to their interests, like programming.dev or retrofed.com (both are pretty self-explanatory)

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 3 points 10 hours ago (3 children)
[–] scallisto@retrofed.com 13 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

People who love authoritarianism and intentionally skip over their atrocities, the term "tankie" refers to how the military (tanks) were used to crush the rebellions of many authoritarian regimes, notably, the Hungarian uprising in 1956 being crushed by the Warsaw Pact and the Tianamen square massacre in 1989 by the PRC.

It's usually used to refer to supporters of the Soviet Union, Cuba, North Korea, etc. who deny all the bad, inhuman things about those states.

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 1 points 1 minute ago
[–] sunsofold@lemmy.zip 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Roughly speaking, authoritarian/big-state communist. Very common on a certain subset of Lemmy instances.

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

So, like a far left beyond DSA or something?

[–] scallisto@retrofed.com 9 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

More people who kiss the toes of dictators. Those who ignore the atrocities of Stalin and similarly despicable figures, "tankie" as in the tanks used to silence civilian protests

Anarchists are far left, but they would be very insulted if you called them tankies (their whole thing is anti-authoritarianism!)

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 1 points 1 minute ago
[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 8 hours ago

in lemmy its usually an alt-left authotarian point of view, aka "communism" but they really represent the extreme opposite of the spectrum as well.

[–] Hal@piefed.nz 8 points 15 hours ago

How about pointing them at Piefed instead?

You could point them to the instance chooser. It's on every piefed instance but is decentralized so may be different on different instances, here's piefed.social: https://piefed.social/auth/instance_chooser

Piefed has all the same content but a different feature set and worse app support, but app support is growing.

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 18 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

ALSO it would be SO cool to see a map where instances are mapped by federation and bigger if they had a lot of users, like thefedi verse logo but actual instances

[–] Hal@piefed.nz 3 points 14 hours ago

There used to be one like that a few years back! From memory I think it was on the German feddit that doesn't exist anymore.

[–] fullsquare@awful.systems 12 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

You can join from voyager app, and the three instances aren't listed by default, or so it seems at least

[–] grandel@lemmy.ml 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] JohnnyEnzyme@piefed.social 6 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I've had fine interactions with one of the devs, anyway. Not so much individual users.

I unsubscribed from all their communities I'd formerly signed up to because of too many toxic interactions.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

i think its usually one of the lemmygrad devs that crashes out quite often that you avoid.

[–] JohnnyEnzyme@piefed.social 3 points 7 hours ago

It's various users, and I forgot to mention HexBear as well. I'm all for Palestine, but one time at my community I posted an excerpt about a moderate-minded Jewish guy in Israel, and they lost their excrement. Dogpiled the post and started screaming the most outrageous stuff, way out of proportion to the actual example.

And it was just a comic book.

[–] grandel@lemmy.ml 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I joined years before the first reddit exodus and back then the .ml instance was one of like three available instances.

I keep reading about instances blocking .ml and everybody on .ml being a tanky but I just wanna browse memes 🤷‍♂️

[–] DeepDown@leminal.space 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah it seems like something has definitely changed. I was just digging through 3yr old threads on .ml and hexbear this morning and there's a way different tone from now. Like, same politics but they're not at war. Can I get your take on what happened?

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 1 points 12 hours ago

Yeah, it’d be nice to get a list of communities that don’t have people whining about capitalism in every comment pool.

[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 3 points 17 hours ago