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Inspired by a comment where one said he wouldn't even visit the US and he already lived there, i got curious about whether people dream of living in any other specific country.

What would be your reasons to live in this other country?

I live in Denmark and I am quite satisfied with my life here. I've been to many European countries, some Asian countries and Australia.

The only other country I would consider moving to was Australia. I absolutely loved the nature, I liked that it seemed like you could pretty much mind your own business, if you lived in the rural parts, while still not being too far away from "civilization".

I've only been in Australia as a tourist, so it is of course limited how much of the daily life of an Aussie i was exposed to, but those locals I talked to seemed happy, despite hating on the politicians (but that is a global issue, for every country, I guess.), and then there was of course quite a lot of racism, but again, you see that in many countries.

Australia also seem to be spared from a lot of the global political issues we currently see, but I am not sure that is correct.

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[–] betelplouf@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Maybe Iceland or New Zealand because there's more healthcare and leftists, but I'm french and I think I would be missing protests way too much to leave (but I'm disabled and it's harder and harder to live here...)

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

I would rather live in ANY country than my own.

[–] impairedimperator@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago

Pretty much anywhere, seem like it'd be fun.

I haven't been back to the country I was born in for some time now. Non-zero chance I'd get arrested stepping off the plane if I did. Geographically speaking. The country itself no longer existsm

[–] 18107@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

Somewhere with good public transport. Ideally somewhere that doesn't prioritise cars over safety, transport efficiency, health, the environment, and the economy.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No matter where you go you bring yourself.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Damnit! There's always a catch.

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 2 points 2 weeks ago

I've lived in 5 developing countries for work, though 2 are really only developing outside of urban areas, and 5 places in the US. Spouse and I still can't even agree on a place to want to live, but our criteria is super picky.

It's worth also saying that to move from your home is very much a personal decision, and not everyone is into that. I value understanding a people and a place, not travel for the sake of IG posts. Without leaving the US, I got the hell out of the small town where I was raised because there were no opportunities to grow as a person. Not because I wanted to go to college in a place with a Starbucks.

Sometimes people need to step back and see if they're just stuck thinking the grass is always greener somewhere else. Humans love to compare things.

There's a time to appreciate where you are, a time to leave to improve yourself or your situation, and a time to fix where you are rather than leave.

[–] chmod755@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

The Netherlands. I already understand some Dutch and I think the weather will be okay with climate change.

[–] Fleppensteijn@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't think climate change affects that neverending wind much

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah it will only make the ongoing dutch war worse

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I live in America so I would prefer a free country. Where might that be?

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Maybe. I don't know enough about what it actually is like in most other countries. I have a few ideas, but I'd have to visit them for a bit to know if I would actually want to live there permanently. Like the Netherlands or Japan. Only ever been to Mexico, Germany and Ireland. And I was only in Ireland for about 3 hours waiting for a change of planes on my way to Germany where I worked for about 2 and half weeks in Bremerhaven. I could probably live in Germany; but I sure as hell would want to be in a different city. Bremerhaven was a bit boring; not much to do there unless I was into strip clubs. They had a gnarly red light district.

[–] Rawrosaurus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

The only thing that would make me leave is if I could have the same quality of life I have here, but with less harsh winters. So I guess New Zealand maybe? But I have no idea. Maybe I just want an excuse to go and look at the cool endemic geckos and other animals.

[–] Bruncvik@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I've lived (stayed for more than a year) in six different countries. The longest I've lived in one country was the US, 16 years. I moved there as an adult already. Since then, I've been living in Ireland for the past 15 years.

I view countries like products. I move to the one that suits me best at the moment. I work, pay taxes, volunteer and otherwise contribute to society as a payment for the privilege to stay, and I live fairly comfortably, based on my stage of life. The US, for example, was great for higher education and saving up money. Ireland sucks for the young and old, but is perfect for the midfle aged middle class. Once I retire, I'll look somewhere else again.

[–] kaosterra@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm surprised I did not see any comments from latinamerica. I left Colombia looking for better quality of life. While in Colombia one could be better off if you are in the top part of the high inequality, you are also constantly reminded of such in many ways. And this also translates to violence and people taking advantage of others. I guess the more "community oriented" cultures are a better fit for me.

[–] akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Did you not notice? That be the same island we made you the governor of on our last little trip.

real answer
My happiest years in my otherwise miserable life were the six years that I spent living in Japan, first as a student and later as a researcher. It would take too much energy, open up too many old wounds, were I to attempt naming all the details, all the nuances, all the - frankly - indescribable feelings that made my life a heaven on earth while living there. And yet, I would not move to Japan to work there if I were held at gunpoint. I value my physical and mental health and my free time - which I think of as my actual "life" - too much to sacrifice them by having to work under Japanese work ethics and Japanese view on mental health. For what? For the occasional indulgence in the most delicious food on earth? The greatest sexual escapades in the known universe? The most beautiful fine arts, music, literature? For the few days that I'd be allowed to visit my family back in Europe every year? No, thank you. Fuck I'm torn to hell.

Anyway, I'd love to live for four-five years each in each country whose native languages I have learned through the years:

  • German: my first choice would be to live in the wilderness of Schwarzwald, but I'd live to experience Austria and Schweiz too, if only for the linguistic experience alone.
  • Spanish: I'd love to live in Columbia. One of my best friends is from Colombia and while he, being born and raised there, says that he hates it, I think that my cold Swedish heart has a lot to learn from Latin culture.
  • Russian: I would like to immerse myself in Russian society, if only to rid myself of any prejudice that I might be living with. I love Russian folk music and its fiery passion. I'd love to experience where that comes from. The climate? History?
  • Hungarian: jk. I'd never move to the fascist state Hungary, but I'd love to live in the ethnically Hungarian parts of Transylvania, since that's where my ancestors are from. I already speak the language, so I'd "just" have to learn the culture. And how to wrestle bears?
  • Icelandic: not much of a choice here, unless you want to count the Faroese islands, whose language is closer to Danish anyway. I've been to Iceland and I absolutely loved the harsh climate and the fabulous people. Everybody was so kind. And the language simply sounds badass.
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