I think a lot of nontechnical people or computer newbies have an assumption in their head that if you want free shit, you'll have to pay in other ways, like with advertising or tracking. It's just the way of the world that nothing is free. There's no free lunch. If a bittorrent client that you use to get free movies has ads, there must be no better options. We're bombarded with this idea constantly. Television, radio, streaming, social media. You get it for free but pay with your attention to ads. We've all been this person at some point.
Then you discover that there are other options, that there are groups of passionate nerds dedicating half of their lives to making useful stuff, distributing it to the world, and expecting nothing in return. This can't be real, right? What's the catch? I thought making software was so hard and boring that nobody would do it in exchange for nothing. But it's real. All this time you've been using crap software that nags you to try their other product, promotes products which have no earthly use, secretly captures information you expect to remain private, but there was this amazing thing outside the castle walls which does none of that. How did I not know about this before? Who are these altruistic people? I want to meet them.
Then you dig in more and find out about the free software movement. Some old hippie at MIT was mad he couldn't get his printer working because the manufacturer refused to supply the source code. He saw software being closed up and becoming industrial rather than academic, transitioning to making a profit, and couldn't bear it. Then we got linux, and all the systems around it, and all the distros, and there was once IBM who created the open PC standard, the copyleft/permissive division over licenses, and so on. Somewhere in the world, there is a 14-year-old learning about all this for the first time just as we did, and maybe it's all a little different because of AI and smartphones and that Stallman is more well-known to be sort of a creep, but it's still part of the history for how we got to where we are today.
It dawns on you that uTorrent is a trick and qBittorrent is the genuine, real deal. They're both "free" but one of them is more free than the other. One claims to be free, but was only created to make somebody passive income for eternity. The other is a bittorent client, a devoted implementation of a specification for an open protocol (the most basic of which is only a few pages long). Bittorrent is simple, fundamental infrastructure and there's absolutely no reason a client needs to show you ads or siphon away your data.
