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I'm here from Reddit. They banned me for absolutely no reason. That's frustrating. How works Lemmy ?

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[โ€“] blazeknave@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

R0. Don't be a fucking nazi. R1. Have fun!

Hi, welcome! Honestly, same... Still trying to find by bearings after 3 weeks use ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] Blaad@europe.pub 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Might want to block the .ml instances if you don't want to see too much weird chinese propaganda... (Tankies are weird).

[โ€“] dreamy@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] bandanawearingbanana@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (5 children)

Relax. It's a bit slower than Reddit, which I think is a good thing. Some niche communities have less posts but you get more genuine replies. After 2 weeks on here I stopped frequenting Reddit as much as I did. I go there once a week maybe to check on some niche subs and I don't miss the rest.

E: Also use Summit for Lemmy on Android it works really well!

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[โ€“] QuadratureSurfer@piefed.zip 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Votes on Lemmy are basically public.
Mod logs are public, so it's a lot easier for users to judge a moderator's actions. This is usually handled over at !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Mastodon (Twitter/like) users can create posts on Lemmy communities.
PieFed has more features that Redditors will be familiar with (post flair, polls, etc). It also has some useful features specific to the fediverse such as feeds for combining similar communities and the ability to view comments organized from every crosspost at once.

Welcome to the threadiverse!

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The block feature is an important part of how you curate your feed on lemmy. It works for communities, people and entire instances.

The community here is generally friendlier than reddit in my experience, and you'll definitely see some controversial opinions here, but even then the discourse is usually healthier.

A combination drawback and strength of the platform is the fact that communities are splintered. Instead of one monolithic communitiy for a given interest, lemmy will typically have versions of the same community split across multiple instances. This can sometimes make browsing less intuitive, but also helps stop one (or several) interest from being completely dominated by a small group of tyrants like on reddit.

Lastly, I enjoy sandwiches! If you share this affinity for foods slammed between slices of bread check out c/SandwichPosting

[โ€“] bold_omi@lemmy.today 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Be aware that many of the instances (ml, hexbear, etcetera) can be rather full of authoritarian leftists. Politically, there are few far-right people, but quite a few authoritarians and quite a few anarchists. That said, not everyone on ml is a tankie.

[โ€“] goldfndr@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 days ago

There are at least two ml:

  • lemmy.ml
  • lemmygrad.ml
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[โ€“] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 days ago

There's a large population of "blame the rich for everything" here. There's a large population of anti AI here. Lemmy.ml seems like hard line communist. Lemmy.ml and Lemmy.world are in friction. It's not a huge place like Reddit. It tends to be liberal leaning. About 40 percent are USAmericans.

[โ€“] diaphragmwp@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Comrade, remember that when arguing with strangers on here, you may have non black and white views. For example, many of us notice undesirable things about Lemmy the software itself, we just acknowledge it and continue using it with the understanding that it's the best we have. BUT it's best to state it explicitly ("I like/use/am X but Y"), because most readers will assume skepticism of something as an argument against it.

It's, however, fine to be downvoted, since there's no score and old comments will essentially drown away behind pages on your account page as you talk more.

Also, oh no, it's time to talk about politics! Be aware of political leanings. Unlike some other platforms, there's no algorithm only showing you what you like, it shows what the majority likes bound by instance rules and norms. Some groups of communities may have slightly different views on average, although in some really rare cases someone on an instance may have a different view. See:

  • hexbear net, lemmy ml, lemmygrad ml and subdomains - someone already explained, pro-Russia and pro-China viewpoints
  • maga place, kiwifarms cc - as it sounds, usually defederated
  • blahaj zone and big "general" instances with majority ex reddit people (including your instance, lemmy world) - "centre-left" in the common sense of the phrase
  • anything with the ideology in the name of the instance, like anarchist dot nexus, is likely to be leaning towards it

Everything not mentioned is generally lib left leaning, like democratic socialists. Remember to use "All" and not "Local" to see everyone!

Also, people usually like text walls, sometimes with links to stuff, breaking out of the 4-th wall of just Lemmy. But there are a few people who don't like visiting links, so you usually state the main point you are trying to derive from what's linked or referenced. Here's one thread I've been to. (Unfortunately Lemmy doesn't really provide a way to properly link across instances, but you can just copy the link, then paste it into the search bar and wait around a bit. When providing links to other posts, you copy the link from the colorful "fediverse" button. Anyways, back to the point.) It wasn't too productive and I've got downvoted a lot in my thread, partly because I forgot to elaborate too much initially, and because I was talking to .world people in anarchist language. That's fine, nothing to be ashamed of. Note the blahaj zone user seemingly jumping in (from search) after a period of inactivity to argue in bad faith. I've managed to stall the conversation by providing counter arguments to basically everything stated with long explanations, citing wikis. This may not have convinced anyone to change their thoughts, but now anyone else attempting to jump in from search will see everything I've stated. I also used some "charged" language, which is fine around here and I never escalated it further. Not the best example of an argument back-and-forth, but close enough for my points.

Also also, pro tip, to mention a community type ! then the name, and to mention a user type @ and then the name. Do NOT use the autocomplete by pressing tab, because it's going to create a link that will lead people to your instance, which people may not like. Just leave it as text and it will self convert for everyone to their own instance.

For example of mentioning users, I'm going to mention @pmjv@lemmy.sdf.org , who often posts newspapers of sorts for tech topics. Check it out sometime, when their instance is up (it's very often down). The newspapers have coupons, you could paste the image into your favorite image editor (like GIMP) then select and copy the coupon to paste it into an argument.

example use of coupon

I've asked Claude to do this for me

One FREE ANTI-SLOP KITTO coupon

Oh, what's that - a spoiler tag, it's called. It's different from Reddit, you type ::: spoiler {name} and end it with :::. You can press the "view source" button on this post to see how that looks like. Yes, you have to use the word "spoiler" AND a name, so to make a spoiler called "spoiler", you use ::: spoiler spoiler. The default web UI lets you stack them. Most mobile apps don't, however, and make the text overflow out of both layers, so I don't recommend relying on that.

I guess that's all I have to add.

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[โ€“] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

They banned me for absolutely no reason.

Because fucking u/spez uses full bot automation for moderation to mete out penalties -- even permabans -- for even the slightest casual remark of violence or anger or merely reading a post.

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[โ€“] Adniem@thelemmy.club 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

well while i maybe new as well

expect some fierce disagreements/arguments on lemmy

and be kind and follow rules of your community and their instance

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